Should a guy tell a girl he’s newly dating?

[AGAM1]

Should a guy tell a girl he’s newly dating he has a small penis? Is it something to talk about later in the relationship? Early? Or not at all and let her see for herself what she thinks if and when the time comes to be nude with each other?

Tell early

Later

Or not at all

[SugarSugarplum]

What is it with internet guys posting junk about their junk? How do you know your penis is small? I have never known a guy to go get naked with the bro's and size each other up. what are you comparing yourself to? Pornhub? Anime?
I have never understood this fixation men have with this. I suspect (I may be wrong here) that it's an attempt to seem more humble and non-threatening to women, or just to feel sorry for yourself and garner sympathy.

My advice: unless your doctor told you that you have a penile issue, consider yourself "average".

I have small boobs, I'm not going to announce that on a dating site (I don't use dating sites). I figure when the time is right a man will see my boobs and know the truth. By then hopefully there is a connection.

If a woman is only concerned about your tool, then she won't be interested in anything less than a city bus. You won't get anywhere with that kind of girl anyways.

[AGAM1]

@sugarsugarplum
I appreciate your answer, this has been tough for me only because I have gotten out of a long term relationship and divorced. I have not dated in years and I’m putting myself out there. Recently I have met women and this has been a topic for a lot of them.

I actually have been to a doctor and I have been told I am smaller than average and they recommend surgery as I would be a good candidate but I don’t have money for it since it is still considered to be an elective procedure.

So that why I ask the questions, trying to figure out if it’s better just to put it all out there in advance.

[JHAYES317]

Depends how small…3.5 inches or above? No. 3 or below? Yes.

[AGAM1]

It’s exactly 9 cm so 3.54 inches. But how soon should I tell someone after meeting them?

[JHAYES317]

@agam1 don’t tell them anything unless they ask…you’re average range in Thailand…make a joke implying you’re below average and see how they react

[AGAM1]

I need to move to Thailand lol. Ok yeah I have always been way to embarrar in the past to talk about size. But I have had to be more up front about it in more recent years. I can try that.

[strateguy632]

Wait until she asks.

[AGAM1]

🤔 so.. if she even asks means she cares to know so tell her then it’s small which means if she even is asking it’s probably because she doesn’t want to be with a guy that has a small penis. Ok ok I follow.

[BadApple69]

On a dating site be honest but keep the small penis to yourself. You got to get her to like you first long before you have to worry about your penis.
Besides although girls say size doesn’t matter… size matters!! but a small penis is Gods way of saying you need to perfect your tongue and finger skills. As long as you can please her you should be good to go. Please ladies, correct me if I’m wrong.

[McLlovin]

Dont do that lol.. i know online dating is frustrating sometimes but no need to castrate yourself to find a special person. If anything you dont look confident in yourself and ultimately will be avoided because of that. Just put who you trully are and dont be fake and eventually you'll find them. I personally dont like online dating but thats just my preference

[AGAM1]

@McLlovin
Trust me I’m getting into this dating world after being married a long time. It’s hard to meet people and the dating apps seems to help, but yes hard to find good quality.

I think you’re right thanks man, I’m just at my end of my wits dating and had a couple bad experiences with girls and my size. Never had this issue with the ex wife.

[normalice]

Probably find a way to meet women that is more likely to result in women who aren't too interested in sex. That doesn't not include online apps.

[AGAM1]

@normalice
Trust me I’m getting into this dating world after being married a long time. It’s hard to meet people and the dating apps seems to help, but yes hard to find and quality.

[Yamaal]

I understood exactly what you meant I just say no, trusting my inner intuition. 😂😂😂

[EmmaMary]

How Boring...Yawn!

[EmmaMary]

REPORTED... DUPLICATE.

[BarryLiverstone]

How small is it?

[AGAM1]

It’s pretty small smaller than average and smaller than most

[BarryLiverstone]

Ya tell her

[AGAM1]

How soon should I tell someone?

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh it’s 4 inches. Don’t tell her before you have sex

[AGAM1]

Wait I’m confused if I have 4 inches don’t tell her before sex? I’m not quite 4 inches almost it’s 3.54 inches

[BarryLiverstone]

Don’t be confused. You have had sex before right? Don’t tell her before you get intimate

[AGAM1]

I have had sex before I’m not confused about that. You initially said I should tell her first.

[BarryLiverstone]

I did based on you saying it was a micro penis