Should I tell a guy I’m going on a date with someone else?

[Anonymous]

Been seeing this guy on and off for a couple of months, he’s a jerk and I keep hoping he’ll be abit more emotional or into me personally but he’s not.

We’ve met up twice, once a proper date and the other sex. He wants to meet up tomorrow again for sex, which I don’t mind if he made an effort to talk to me but the last two days he’s sent me 2-3 texts.

I said to him that it’s impossible to have a normal conversation with him (he takes ages to reply unless it’s about sex) to which he said he isn’t in the right head space and that he’s sorry and hasn’t texted me since, but has been online.

I know he’ll text me tomorrow to meet up, but now I don’t really want to.

When he texts should I just say I’ve made plans to see someone else? I feel like I want to be a bitch and be like “f*ck you, I’m seeing someone who gives a shit about me”, but I know that’s not right haha

He’s just pissed me off so much over the past couple of months, and I’ve given him so many chances to be a good guy who’s interested in me (I know I shouldn’t have given him more than one chance, please don’t come at me).

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I might just block him, was supposed to see him tonight but I don’t want to give him the satisfaction

[Anonymous]

You’re trying to warrant a response that you already know he isn’t going to give. All he cares about is sex and doesn’t care to even talk unless that somehow enters the conversation. You know this because he has demonstrated this to the point that you had to call him out and say it’s impossible to have a normal conversation. He’s a fuckboy, not a lover. Don’t give him anymore attention If you want someone who’s serious and just move on.

[Darwin_n_chill]

What do you want? If you want more than sex, which most women do and it seems like you do, then don't be with a guy that's acting like this. He is clearly only interested in sex. Men will do all kinds of things for sex, including pretending that they are more interested in romance than they actually are. Men have a very different relationship to sex than women, it drives us. It's unfortunate that girls are not taught this like they used to be, because of a lot of woke nonsense going on these days. Anyway, my advice would be to not give it up so easily, if you actually want a long-term relationship. Doing so puts you into a category in the man's mind that you are essentially a source of easy sex, and as the old saying goes, why buy the cow in the milk is free.

[AviatorTom]

Why tell him anything? Just enjoy your date with the other guy.

[Nikki1989]

You are not under any obligation to say anything.

[Asker]

I know, but I’m in a bitter mood and feel like throwing it in his face that I’m moving on.

Maybe I should calm down before I text him.

[Gwendoline]

No. Yiu should dump him and move on.

[Billlewis]

Yes, absolutely.

[jahaims]

"This guy is a jerk" "I better fuck him" lmfao

[Iron_Man]

he just wants sex that’s all move on