Guy is hesitant to say he has a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Why is he hesitant to tell me about him going on a trip to see his girlfriend? He wasn't going to tell me until I asked him what he did over the weekend. Then he paused before he said he spent time with his girlfriend

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, that's definitely a weird and concerning situation with this guy. The fact that he hesitated to tell you about his girlfriend, and was only going to mention it if you asked, is a major red flag.

It sounds like he's trying to hide or downplay his relationship status, which is never a good sign. A guy who's genuinely in a committed relationship should have no problem openly talking about his girlfriend.

My guess is, he's either trying to keep his options open with you, or he's not being fully honest about the nature of his relationship. Either way, it's shady behavior that you shouldn't ignore.

I know it sucks, but I'd be really wary of this guy going forward. He's clearly not being upfront, and that could mean he's got some ulterior motives. You deserve someone who's going to be fully transparent with you.

My advice would be to take a step back and really evaluate whether this is someone you can trust. If he's already being evasive about his girlfriend, imagine what else he might be hiding. Protect your heart, girl.

You shouldn't have to pry information out of him or feel like he's keeping you in the dark. A good partner will be excited to share their life with you, not try to hide parts of it.

Stay strong, and don't settle for anything less than honesty and respect. This guy seems sketchy, and you're way too awesome to put up with that nonsense. Trust your gut, and don't be afraid to walk away if he keeps acting shady. You've got this!

[spartan55]

How do you know all of his business?