Should I feel worthless simply because a guy cheated on me mercilessly since I didn't satisfy his romantic urges when he wanted me to?

[Anonymous]

Should I feel worthless before the girl he cheated on me with? Should she be looked as great and should I look less than her? Does my self worth based on a guy who cheats on me?

[knottywriter]

You know... I get things happen with people in the heat of the moment sometimes and people make mistakes. When someone cheats on you mercilessly though with the excuse of you not giving into their "romantic" urges, that's pretty f'd up. I'm not saying a heat of the moment thing is okay, but that is probably a sense of the person's insecurities festering in them. A pure douche is one who mercilessly cheats because they think they are entitled to something because it isn't being given to them how they they feel they "deserve" it. You are not the worthless one. He proved he was the worthless one and not worthy of you.

[coolbreeze]

No make yourself happy first before making any guy happy. Try to find a guy who is on the same page like you.

[Asker]

Thanks

[coolbreeze]

Your very welcome.

[coolbreeze]

Thank you for mho

[AviatorTom]

People cheat because they can. It has little to do with how they feel about their relationship. You are not worthless. Move on.

[ohsheeT]

Time out. Dont even think that way.
You could have given that guy everything he wanted and he would have still cheated on you
And I guarantee you the girl didn't have anything on you either she probably didn't even know that he was in a relationship
If I was you I would hold my head up high and smile that it ended ..
I would say you're not the first girl that's happened to and I would also say you're not the last girl that that's going to happen to with this guy no be proud of yourself or not doing something stupid like he did be proud of yourself because you have morals values and ethics you did nothing wrong it's all on him it will always be on him and he will probably end up being a lonely guy or with a girl that he doesn't want to be with

[BoobSlayer]

cantaloupes, boom booms, noogies, and jugs. No! Nobody should ever feel worthless because someone cheated on them. Everyone deserves to have someone who cherishes and appreciates their melons, honkers, boobies, tits, milkers, chesticles, honkers, bazoombas, coconuts, and fiery biscuits. Of course, I'm talking about the appearance of ripe fruit, specifically in proportion to the rest of the body, or honkers of lactating mothers. I"m not sure if you're lactating, but you could still have a "wow" factor if they're especially firm, large, or pointy. If you're a Welsh girl, Asian girl, or feminist with especially round bazookas, that's definitely a unique quality, with or without a moderately large areola.

[EricSummer]

Of course not. The other girl is not to be envied as she is with a confirmed cheater now. Best find a guy who is worthy of you. That's not easy to do, so do not waste any thought on your ex.

Best take a bit of a break from dating first and look after yourself.

[chloeaimeejensen]

Honey, of course you’re not worthless. That guy cheated on you because he was thinking with his dick and not his head or heart. Think of all the good qualities you were offering him which he threw away. No one is better than yourself.

I really wish I could take you under my wing. If you spent a week with me and my friends, you’d find yourself much more confident, have more self worth and best of all, that guy and the girl he cheated on you with will be the last thing on your mind.

[lightbulb27]

You might feel that way and can't blame you if you did, but no, this isn't about you.

This is about God saving you from a life of misery with him and dealing with her... two poorly trained adults count your blessings it happened as early as it did.

The part about you is why you picked him and how long you put up with him.

[BoopBoopBeep]

No you two just aren't compatible. If you want sex once a month and he wants it twice a day you aren't going to work out. Now he should have broken up with you first, sure, but move on with your life and find someone you ARE compatible with.

[strateguy632]

worthless? not for this or any reason but if you want a relationship to work make yourself available. especially when you feel urge make sure lover knows.

[boggboss]

Nope understand he was a shit person and it's somthing u didn't pick up on being cheated on is not your fault

[Kerrytheman]

No! I was cheated on as well by my wife with two babies at home. She blamed me for it all. There was nothing you coukd have done to stop him from cheating. They have to blame you for their actions but realistically they woukd have cheated on anyone!

[loveslongnails]

You could do that, but it would make you an idiot, not to mention needing help for a an extremely serious low self-esteem issue. I hope you're not really serious.

[MementoMori777]

nope, cheaters aren't justified, he fucked up, you still chillin

[soniaaaaaaa]

Of course not he just proved that he didn’t deserved you he should feel worthless

[LiamJHayden]

Should you feel worthless because some selfish POS cheated on you and then blamed you for it? No, you should not.

[Anonymous]

No. You should feel worthless because you CHOSE this guy. But then you need to get past it. Chalk it up to you made a mistake, learn from it, and don't repeat it.

[clampfan101]

He’s the one who should be feeling worthless. And don’t compare yourself to her.

[Wise4myage]

Of course not. He's the one who should feel bad.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Not worthless, just worth less than her!
(I'm kidding. Don't be silly)

[DextroShade]

Has he given this girl anything other than dick? If you are the main chick you should not be jealous of the side chicks.

[justabuddy]

No, you probably do feel that what. But in time you will see that the problem is not you, it's him.

[Anonymous]

No. If anything that douche who cheated should feel worthless for losing a good person (you).

[Anonymous]

She's either better than you or she is better at sex, otherwise she wouldn't have chose her instead of you

[Asker]

The second one. She's submissive than me. I'm not submissive as her

[StrangerSwotto]

No, it's not your fault

[slatyb]

No, her will cheat on every woman he is with.

[KrakenAttackin]

You should stop chasing Chad Thundercock.