Married 10 years with children. She lied and cheated. I'm not giving advice but I'll share what I'm doing. I divorced her. I speak very little to her and only because we have children together. Her family disowned her for awhile until I recommended everyone to get along.
I try not to think about her or what she did... I can't change it. I move forward and live my life. It's been a year now. I still get mad, sad, dissapointed and angry... just less often. If she enters my mind I quickly focus elsewhere, she isn't worth my time.
After it was over, I discovered she was lying from the day we met. Even her family knew secrets about her. I know them now, but too late.
I have wonderful children, family and friends. I love my life and will move forward to live again in a new way.
It takes time. Good luck. You're not a victim and your not alone!
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Well those type of people want something always new which means that you could done nothing wrong to cause this, however bring a guy home and asking you to move out in a really in poor taste. If she is using anything you own or have your name in take it away and just move on.
Alright. If im honest I've been cheated on too. It made me feel the same way, It's hard to recover from. But just think of it this way. It wasn't your loss it was theirs. I know its easier said than done; but try and distract yourself from the thought of what happened. If that don't work; think of it as. A little bump in a road you'll over come. As for trusting people again, give it a little bit of time. And take your time with people; don't instantly trust them. Give it a week or so maybe; of getting to know the person. If there's no red flags, trust them; but dont trust them with everything. However, if they show you that they are trustworthy of everything. Then trust them with everything.
I'm here to tell you bro, hearts don't break even. Sorry. I loved him more than he could fathom. Still do. But, I'm not what he wants. And it's rough. I will get through,, you will too.
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