Have you met your soulmate/true love yet?

[hailiegirl12]

I have. Mine is my boyfriend of 9 months. We've known each other 14 months.

Yes

No

Maybe/trying to figure out

Updates

+1 y

For the people saying I'm too young to tell, I can definitely tell. A soulmate is someone that you feel an instant connection to. Although my boyfriend and I have only known each other for a short 14 months, we feel like we've known each other our whole lives. We knew that we could never just stay friends. Months ago we looked up terms to see if we could find what we were and we decided we were in a situationship which is a space between a friendship and a romantic relationship

[Anonymous]

You bet I have. I wake up next to her every morning. Her smile lights up my whole day! When she tells me she loves me I feel 1000 feet tall and that there is nothing I can't do!

She never is unbelievably patient with me - and believe me, I test her patience a lot!! Instead she just smiles at me, rolls her eyes and gives me a peck on the cheek.

The happiest days of my life is when I gave her a ring and tears welled up in her eyes and she said, "Yes!" The next times were when I saw her struggling and there was nothing I could do and I felt helpless and yet she smiled at me and mouthed the words, "I love you."

Then what was probably only moments later - but felt to me like an eternity - she put three little angels in my arms. Angels who call me "daddy" and who always remind me by their presence in my house just who my soulmate is and reminds me, despite the occasional tensions and bumps that are part of the daily business of life, ever to be grateful.

In short, you bet I found my true love, my soulmate. Even on my worst days, I am the luckiest and happiest man on Earth!!

[hailiegirl12]

Congratulations:)

[Comfort_Cave]

Are you a moderator?

[Opinion Owner]

@Comfort_Cave Not that I am aware. I come to the site mostly as a hobby. (Generally I respond to political questions - I work in politics. Though, as in this case, I do make an exception every now and then.)

I am rated an "Influencer," but beyond that I have no designation on the site of which I am aware.

[SnowedIn]

I have met my soulmate.

[hailiegirl12]

Congratulations:)

[SnowedIn]

Thank you!

Best wishes to you.

[hailiegirl12]

You're welcome and thank you

[SnowedIn]

Thanks for mho!

[hailiegirl12]

Yw :D

[DizzyDesii]

Sometimes I feel I might have come across them but I won’t know until someone acts on it. I’m normally straightforward but if I feel myself really liking someone but can hardly explain why there's this spark, I’ll remain hesitant to say something. My standards and dealbreakers have pushed aside a lot of good men but I have to stay true to what I want in a relationship to avoid wasting each other’s time. I’m sure it will all workout in the long run. I’m picky for a good reason and someone worthwhile will eventually see/understand that. If they know whats good for em, they’ll be a bit picky too

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for mho

[hailiegirl12]

Yw <3

[Sarahr123]

I was 15 when I met my ex. I thought I’d love him forever and I wanna marry him and all that but by the time I got to 21/22 I had grown into a completely different person. It just wasn’t the same anymore. I had to try hard to still love him and make the relationship work but I was just forcing myself to be somewhere I didn’t want to be. What made it worse was that I just held on because I was afraid of loneliness.

Very often when someone meets someone that young, they grow out of that person. You won’t be the same person in six years time.

[Kaneki05]

Don't listen to idiots who use your age. It's about knowing what love is granted more experience is better to figure it out as one may have not yet but some people learn much sooner.
Though there is 2 people in a relationship so one may have not learnt yet even if the other has. Or both has which of course is perfect.

It might be true you have, may also not be but there is no point worrying about that. If anything that would just lead to it ruining. So you are right to keep hopes up.

I've had two just LDR and other things made it not work out. Hoping 3rd time will be someone I actually meet IRL or LDR that ain't to hard to work out logistics for, as they say 3rd time is the charm.

[hailiegirl12]

Good luck :D

[Anonymous]

Boobslayer remembers meeting his soulmate, that first time he felt a burning fire in his heart, knowing that the melons on her chest were ready to be picked from the vine. He gazed into her eyes and saw a love that lit up the sky, and knew that those honkers were his. His fingertips burned with anticipation as he reached out to caress those pillows of joy; he had finally found the one his heart had been searching for.

He scooped her up in his arms, feeling her milkers against his chest as he pressed his lips to hers. He held her tighter, wishing he could keep her in his embrace forever, and promised her his undying loyalty and love. He was ready to do whatever it took to prove his devotion and show her how beautiful and exquisite her Danny DeVito's were.

At long last, Boobslayer had found the woman that would complete him, their hearts and chesticles entwined forever. He brought his head to hers, breathing in the scent of her fiery biscuits, and he moved his hands up her sides to cup her cantaloupes in his palms. He could feel her warm breath on his soul and the connection between them was undeniable.

With each passing moment, Boobslayer’s love for his soulmate grew deeper, for she was the keeper of his bazoombas, his protector of his boom booms, and his loyal lover of his noogies. He had found his home in her arms, never wanting to leave the safety of her jugs. He had found his one true love and his heart overflowed with joy knowing she was his.

As far as cuckvestigations go, I think it's best to leave those matters to @dild-ph-be. That being said, I do have a special appreciation for all of creation's finest melons, honkers, boobies, tits, milkers, chesticles, bazoombas, coconuts, fiery biscuits, cantaloupes, boom booms, noogies, and jugs, so I hope the cucking goes well for all of you.

[hailiegirl12]

I- Ok then

[Staximus]

Give it a rest pally

[TenderFantasy]

1. That's sweet. Hey if it works. I do think you're too young to know. But it does take two. Till you've been through a lot of bad shit and tragedies of life together, you won't really be able to tell imho.

2. Also just make sure you don't depend on him for EVERYTHING. You gotta pave your way in life too just saying.

[bobthe1st]

That's kinda it isn't it, until the boat rocks you don't really know

[TenderFantasy]

@bobthe1st Exactly. 👍👍

[hailiegirl12]

I know right now we work together to get through hard times, and know things will get better if we use teamwork:)

[TenderFantasy]

@hailiegirl12 That's so awesome. He seems like a keeper. From my experience unfortunately, some men take TOO MUCH time to grow up and love lol. But hey, since you know at such a young age, all the more power. Hope it stays that way.

[hailiegirl12]

❤️❤️

[VadeinVain]

Probably not, I'm just a teenager after all. I've only known the person I love for a good 4 months, most of which I was annoyed by him. However, my boyfriend is genuinely one of the kindest humans I know, a great friend, and one of the few I'll allow myself to love. Even if we won't love each other forever, I don't have doubts about him being the best person to introduce me to my ability to love at all.

[hailiegirl12]

Same with my boyfriend, we want to be together our whole lifes but since we're still young and we're long distance we still have a while to go before we are irl bc we're 15 and 16

[Staximus]

Listen young turkey, it takes more than an instant connection. Don't let yourself fall for some guy until you know he cares as much about you as you do about him. You need to live with somebody before you can decide if they are your true love. They might leave the cap off the toothpaste or something

[hailiegirl12]

None of that matters. I love him for who he is. And I know how much he cares about me, on Christmas last year he stayed up all night with me to help me with anxiety and ptsd because of the next day due to something personal. We love each other to death

[Anonymous]

Dang girl! Hold on and brake! 🤣


You are VERY young and your brain hasn’t fully developed yet and you are still in the honeymoon phase of the relationship.


Perhaps ask that question again when you are 25 and older 😄

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Yeah she's setting herself up for some major heart break

[Opinion Owner]

Sadly, yes. Heartbreak sucks but we all go through it at some point in our life.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Yep, true. Some sooner than others I guess

[Opinion Owner]

True. Doesn't the first heartbreak usually happen around 14-18 years old?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I have no idea. That sounds about right.
But I've never had my heart broken. Shattered into little pieces when she died, but not broken in the traditional sense.

[Opinion Owner]

Heartbreak is painful but the death of a loved one, especially your soulmate, is a different kind of pain. I am deeply sorry for your loss 😢

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Thanks, that was sweet.
I'm sorry some jerk broke your heart

[Opinion Owner]

You’re most welcome 🫶🏻
Sadly, it happens. I try to remain positive about the situation and always see the joy in life 😄

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Absolutely! Can be hard to do, but I agree with that philosophy

[Opinion Owner]

Indeed. Life isn't easy but there's joy in waking up each day, seeing the sun, hearing the birds and praising God for giving you another day 🙏🏻

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You said it sister

[hailiegirl12]

@WanderingLoveWizard He'd never intentionally make me upset or hurt me. If he hurts me, it wouldn't really be him it would be something that made his mind go foggy. He's the person I want and he wants me for the rest of our lives

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@hailiegirl12 Ok. Well I hope for your sake that he is your soul mate and the two of you live happily ever after

[hailiegirl12]

@WanderingLoveWizard Let's just say we've gone through things together that's tested our love, but we've both pulled through

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@hailiegirl12 You're pretty cute, you know that? After your update, I actually agree with you. I know what it feels like and that's it

[hailiegirl12]

@WanderingLoveWizard :)

[ohsheeT]

I look at it like this if we have the God particle in US that means we all came from the same place and if we all came from the same place that means that we would be soulmates are ready

Now I've never read the Bible but I've been told somehow that we are all meant to be one and one with the universe that would make us all soulmates again

[Anonymous]

I went to a psychic once, and he told me that I would find my soul mate late in life. It was kinda floating out there without a clear indication, and I really didn't give it much weight. A friend of mine swore he was accurate, so I humoured her. Interestingly, recently some the things he predicted are showing up and I think I know who he was talking about. She is certainly a very dear friend. I didn't see the connection between his prediction and her before. Much needs to change before anything can happen, but it is possible. It's weird to say that, but it's possible. I'm not really the type for all of this, but we'll see how it turns out.

[SolitarySolace]

Nope. But I don’t believe in soulmates or true love. For the idea of soulmates to be true, one individual who is meant for you and only you, they have to be alive and/or in the same state/country as you in order to form a meaningful life together.


Honestly, “soulmates” and “true love” are just buzz words that cause people to want to find someone and feel all lovey dovey when they claim they’ve found “the one.”

[EmmaMary]

Absolutely... We met ten years ago, lived together and have now been married for five of them.

[hailiegirl12]

Congratulations

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I can see it now... your Instagram full of "You said forever" posts

[hailiegirl12]

We have this sort of connection so strong that even if something happened and we broke up, we'd still remain friends. Him and I are both best friends with his ex now, so things still would work out

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol, I'm sorry I rained on your parade. You could be right. What do I know?

[Dildօphօbe]

So you admit that the soulmate is not necessarily someone to stay with until death? In case of a breakup, you're still friends, but you find another soulmate. Just challenging the "soulmate" idea here. In case if you have children and then end up hating each other - make sure to separate and replace so that the children don't grow up with toxic parents. That's one of the biggest problems with the religious type of "soulmates" and "till death do your part."

[hailiegirl12]

@Dildօphօbe we'd die for each other. We want each other for the rest of our lives. We'd still be friends if something horrible did end up happening and we broke up, which would be very stupid of both of us, but we don't want to be without each other. He's the only reason that I'm even trying to be social anymore. He's the only thing that calms my anxiety, were meant to be together. I'd rather be dead than leave his side. I don't think I ever could love somebody else more then a friend besides him

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Soul mate isn't religious bro. It's spiritual. Hating your soul mate is like hating yourself. You might feel it, but you're not going anywhere. You're stuck together whether you like it or not because the bond is too strong.
Very rarely, if ever, is the relationship toxic for very long. They're not just your spouse, they're your best friend and you want what's best for them, even often putting their needs before your own. Which also serves you in a weird way.
It's hard to explain unless you've gone through it though

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@hailiegirl12 You said it girl 👍

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. Probably my fault. I am a great friend, and good at dating, but when it comes to relationships I am too judgmental.

[hailiegirl12]

Good luck on finding your special person :)

[McKellar]

Yes, I did once met my soul mate. We dated for a good length of time, we were considering marriage (yes, it was getting serious), I was going through some issues which I tried to fix (the minor stuff was my fault yes, but the most stuff... that wasn't my fault yet I still had to fix them) these things were weighing her down, she couldn't handle it anymore and then she left me.

That's just something you'll never be able to get over nor will that scar ever go away.

[Pebbles1104]

i feel like i have and yeah im 14 and all but I've known him a while and been dating for a little over a year

[hailiegirl12]

Congratulations ❤️

[Nikki1989]

Yes, together 7 years and happier than ever.

[hailiegirl12]

Congratulations

[slatyb]

I will be curious to know how you feel when you are 20.

[hailiegirl12]

He's the only person I want for the rest of my life

[Anonymous]

When I was 19 I met the guy who changed my perception on love and then ruined it. He is happily married to somebody else and I am still trying to recover from the damage he caused to me. I hoped that I would meet somebody who could fix what he broke but so far it’s just numbness. Nobody ever really gave me the feeling he gave me but also considering what he did to me I can’t believe he was my soulmate. So I’m gonna say no I haven’t met that person yet

[RingOfFire]

Yes, I have met my soulmate. As a matter of fact I have met about five of them in my life. I suspect you will too.

[hailiegirl12]

The one I have now is the only one I want for the rest of my life. He's the only one that makes me feel like I'm worth something. I love him to death and if something happened to him I'd either never love anybody again, be depressed for the rest of forever, or wish I was the one hurt/dead instead of him

[Djaay]

Yes I have. Great that you have already. And I wish you both the best. I married my first wife at 15 also. Was a widower 8 years ago , then 7 years ago I married once again.

[hailiegirl12]

Thanks <3

[Apple1996]

I believe that we have multiple soulmates so yeah I have found some including my husband who is my main soulmate

[Anonymous]

I hope so, we've been together 3 years, known her for 4, but I'm still stuck in life and don't want to live anymore. But I can't just leave her

[hailiegirl12]

I hope things work out for you two

[Raaj4you]

No, not yet. Where is she? Do you know where she lives? Tell me right now.

[hailiegirl12]

You'll know it when you feel it

[Raaj4you]

When? I am getting older. Single life sucks.

[hailiegirl12]

You'll get there someday. As one of my favorite love songs "someday we'll get to that part" you will too

[Raaj4you]

Thanks 😊 I hope so. Awaiting for that day.

[hailiegirl12]

<3 you will

[Raaj4you]

Nice😊! Send me the link of the song you mentioned.

[hailiegirl12]

https://youtu.be/sotnjcMeGdQ

[Raaj4you]

Awesome! Meaningful!

[Reorx]

No, I'm a stubborn fool & it took me time to mature & realize what I value in a woman; modesty, good heart, someone I can have a family with, see growing old with. One's living rent free in my head right now.

[Anemone978]

No, but I have found the guy I don't mind to spend my life with.

[Shamalien]

I thought I did…. but her family was hell bent on destroying us and they succeeded. Also, she was kind of nuts, but in a way I found attractive. Probably dodged a major bullet

[sheenagwapa]

i have met my soulmate but true love that is in question

[Mac-One]

Yes, almost 62 years ago but didn't know it then. Relationship has developed over time.

[Alphamaleoffun]

I never will since all girls are scared of things and expect us to kill that one baby spider. So I’m not working for a girl. But I’ll kill spiders (if they hurt anyone). But soulmates will most likely avoid me

[ByCureChris9669]

I am not certain!

I am confused :)

Do you give advice? dm me if its okay?

[hailiegirl12]

I can try :D

[ByCureChris9669]

okay :) well send me a message

[Exterminatore]

I don't know. Let me ask my wife for the answer and I’ll get back to you.

[bobthe1st]

Enjoy youth! Live the moment! But only time will tell.

[legalboxers]

-looks at watch- -looks at calendar- -looks in mirror and doesn't see a smile-

nope... dont think I will.. Im too old

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Yes and I married him. <3

[hailiegirl12]

Congratulations 🎉❤️

[gothbxtch]

not yet, but i hope to soon!

[hailiegirl12]

Good luck! :D

[gothbxtch]

thank you!!

[Nonyabiness]

Because im older and there is no hope for me

[Ms_Facesitter]

It's too early to say, but it's been great.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

He's not

[hailiegirl12]

Good luck with you two!

[Ms_Facesitter]

Thanks :)

[hailiegirl12]

You're welcome ❤️

[Nahid1707]

Happy for you and no
Why the picture like that?

[hailiegirl12]

They're pictures of us in a video game because we're long distance and it's the only way we can be together besides calls

[Nahid1707]

Yea i understand
Hailee

[shades777]

Youngster, you may meet more than one in your life

[hailiegirl12]

The one I have now is who I'm happiest with. He's the reason I'm alive. He's helped my mental health so much. He's given me a reason to be happy. I love him to death and I'd rather die than lose him. If he goes, I go too. We talk about wanting to get married, have a family, and grow old together

[VadeinVain]

Though he might be your true love, don't put your whole life in his hands. You can make your purpose in life without this specific guy. You know, I think it's more admirable when people don't even need each other, but they want each other and will stay by each other's side (within reason).

[hailiegirl12]

@VadeinVain we taught each other love and he's had other girlfriends before me😅

[astrophelle]

I thought I had met him 😹😹😹😹😹😹.

[Anonymous]

Yeah he just doe’s know yet.

[Opinion Owner]

*doesn’t

[hailiegirl12]

Nice :)

[MizzArtFreak89]

Not yet but I will soon.

[fonduegirl]

Good for you

[hailiegirl12]

Thanks

[Luopio27]

Such a person doesn't exist. Not for me.

[Juxtapose]

I wish I could lol.

[TrillXHippy]

Don’t worry about it

[Anonymous]

Yes but I'm the shorter one, haha.

[hailiegirl12]

congratulations 😅

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks!
She likes being the taller one haha.

[TheAfrikan]

Nah not yet still looking around fr one

[whistlingwh0res]

Demon meets playboy yeah

[switchfan22]

Not yet. Would it be okay to message you?