If a girl doesn’t kiss you by the 5th date would you stop seeing her?

[Anonymous]

If she says she takes things slow will that deter you?

Yes

No

[slatyb]

Not necessarily. It would be a bit odd though. If she says "She takes things slow" -- that would be a deal breaker. The correct word is "slowly". Seriously, I would wonder whether she has much of a sex drive. Because I do.

[DextroShade]

If there isn't any physical affection by the 3rd date I would be gone. There's taking things slow and there is stringing a guy along to finesse him out of his time and money. You should be ashamed of yourself.

[Anonymous]

That would tell me she's really seeing someone else and keeping around just in case the guy she's serious with falls through.
Even if my assumption was false, dating without intimacy is nothing more than a friendship

[Jadebamboo]

Well by the 3rd date I would be sure to ask what her goals are. So there would be no mystery.