What chances do I have in dating world being a 5’4 height guy? would you date a guy this height girls?

[Anonymous]

[Rei13]

You’re the same height as my boyfriend. Don’t worry there are women out there for you. Generally it might be your height or shorter but that’s not always the case. As my boyfriend put it you have to compensate for it in other ways. He works out and does well career-wise. He has a friend shorter than he is who is so confident for being a man who is 4’11 but has no issues with attracting women. He compensates with his personality and being in shape.

[Asker]

What is your height then?

[Rei13]

I’m 5ft

[Asker]

Okay that is sweet
Thank you

[Asker]

Adding to what you say
Is it normal to feel as there aren’t women out there for me?

[Rei13]

I think that is normal and it is harder because that is something you can’t change, but just give it time. You’ll find someone amazing that will compliment you

[Asker]

Any suggestions on how I could meet new women? Preferably in real life way

Yea my height is the awkward part when it’s all unexpected for me being 5’4 / 5’5 height

My dad and younger brother are taller

Girls want a guy who is 5’9 or 6’0 in height or not always?

Adding To what you say I do respect women and try to understand

Thanks for reply

[Rei13]

I think the best thing you can do, especially with you still being so young, is build up your social network and do the things you enjoy. Don’t actively look for a woman, work on building friendships. A lot of my success in dating (and my for boyfriend) has been through meeting people organically either through our friends or through doing the things we enjoy. You might not find a girlfriend right away but you still gain something valuable from it

[Asker]

I’m 25, not exactly young

Yea, i would appreciate good female friends who don’t mention my height 😅
I could have all the other qualities a women would want expect for a guys height she wants

Of course, i do agree Female friendship is valuable and can help a guy learn about women

I’ll try to meet new women for certain
I been trying to

[Rei13]

Male friendships too, I met my boyfriend through a male mutual friend and 25 is still pretty young

[Asker]

Feels as I’m at the age where I do need to find someone though

Yea, i am glad to hear you’re a happy girlfriend, or wife
You sound happy

So, i appreciate your advice and I understand what you mean

Thank you

[_Maya_]

Yep, I would. That is but a few inches shorter than I am. It would not bother me at all. Me ex was shorter than me by an inch. It just isn't something I worry about too much. I don't want to pass up a great person with a good personality that I would have fun with because they are shorter than I am. I'd date that guy at 5'4.

[Asker]

I’m sorry your ex was a little shorter
Thank you for the advice and support

[_Maya_]

You are welcome.

[Asker]

What is your height then? 😊

[_Maya_]

I am 5'7"... pretty average.

[Asker]

You would be taller than a 5’4 guy in height
You don’t seem average, you seem well spoken 😊

[_Maya_]

Yep. I was taller than my ex by an inch or two. Not a big deal. Lolz I meant average in height for a girl.

[Asker]

I would have thought you would be considered tall for a girl 😊
No worries
As long as you Love your 5’4 guy and as you say “you would have fun with” him in the bedroom 😅

[_Maya_]

Of course lolz. Height matters not when you are horizontal

[Asker]

Good adjective.
Yea, appreciate your support and loving

[Asker]

Ways to meet new and more women as a single guy this summer 2023 and in 2024? ↗

Asked this question too if you want to suggest anything

[_Maya_]

Thanks for the most helpful opinion! Sorry, I must have missed the notificatio for the reply with the link to your other question. Would you still like to to put an opinion on that one?

[Asker]

Yes please and it’s okay
Yea, I’m 25, not exactly young 😅
I would want a good women in my life