Will men regret loosing a good girl?

[Anonymous]

We were in 8 years relationship.. we got engaged last year.. i loved him so much.. stand by him in every proplem he had.. support him always.. and one day before our marriage he told me that he lost feelings for me.. and lost spark in our relationship.. and left me for a girl he knew from work.. i feel so depressed.. i wasted my life.. how should i move on and forget him

[KingOfMe1]

Well the key to overcoming or undermining lovesickness is to distract yourself intellectually and physically.

• Every time you think about quickly catch it and think about something else
• Stay busy, highly recommend doing something proactive that can change the course of your life. However, anything will do. The best things distract you entirely and you literally forget about the breakup as if you are in a deep sleep.
• Sleep also helps because you cannot think about it when you sleep.

You see thinking is what causes feeling and that's what you are trying to avoid. You have to get control of your attention. Your subconscious will catch on to what you're doing it start to let go of the person. I know the pain of breakup but your pain might be even worse. I highly recommend distracting yourself with something that allows for no mental idleness. But you will create a habit out of whatever your doing... So be careful.

[MementoMori777]

with acceptance that its over and by cutting the person off completely and beginning that healing process, at the end of the day you gain charcter from the experience, you know the red flags and next time maybe you'll try things differently in general, new type perhaps, completely different than this one

[kylee2437]

Maybe, but I think you dodged a bullet. Seems like he has commitment issues and sabotaged directly before he was going to get into a full on committed situation. That will most likely happen to this girl as well.

[KingOfMe1]

Positive way to look at it.

[kylee2437]

@kingofme1 absolutely! How you get them, is how you lose them. The next girl is definitely in for one unfortunately

[Asker]

Yes you are right.. thank you❤️
Do you think i will forget him.. i am a doctor but i couldnt help myself.. he is my first love

[kylee2437]

@asker so I have read it takes half as long of the relationship to fully heal, but even then that gives you soo much time to heal yourself and get back on track to what excited you and getting into new things that will bring you joy.

[Anonymous]

He probably will miss you afterwards when he realizes he had someone better, seems like he got interested in her and thinks she will be better, he will probably never be happy. Give yourself some time before finding someone else but there’s always someone else out there that will appreciate you

[Anonymous]

Not usually.