Do men regret ending this with a good girl?

[Anonymous]

So here’s my question to men that has lost a good woman in their life.. did you regret it? do you ever find yourself comparing her to other girls? .. how long did you realize you messed up?

I come to realize it’s true.. nice guy always finishes last.. - I’ve been told I’m very attractive and charming and I don’t know how true it is but one thing for sure.. when I love someone I will always accept them for who they are, I love them in and out and would do just about anything for them.. in my relationships I’ve always heard from every man “you are a good girl.. your wife materiel.. your very nurturing.. you’d be a good mom” .. and once a man says this I know the end is near.. because not to long later the relationship ends , not one of my partners have any negative to say about me but I’ve always heard from other people or friends they’d say “it’s not her she was an amazing partner It’s me” or they will literally downgrade to some sloppy girl..

I’m a traditional girl, I cook for my man, I take care of him, I let him lead, I listen to him, I motivate him.. and they always leave..

do y'all ever regret hurting or walking out on someone who was “too good”

[Finchie40]

If she is a good girl to me , my ass isn’t leaving her period unless she betrays me or cheats on me but if she stays loyal and faithful to me and treats me like I am her King, she will definitely be my Queen. So it sounds like these guys’ you have dated that eventually left you , were the ones that were up to no good , and not being honest to you about what they were doing behind your back. They just sugarcoated the fact that they were breaking up with you by telling you , those nice things because they knew you didn’t deserve to be treated the way they treated you , So it sounds like you dated some very selfish guys’ that only really cared about themselves , that had no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves. Sadly selfish people are the reason most relationships do not make it the long haul , selfish people can’t take accountability for their own selfish actions , they easily point fingers at you before pointing fingers at themselves first. So I’m sorry to hear that your exes did that to you. But understand you deserve way better than that shit. So my advice to you , is never fall for a guy that is clearly selfish , when a guy truly loves and salutes a girl , he will make her his top priority over everyone else , over his friends and over his family as long as she does the same for him. A loving guy will be nothing but honest and respectful to you and always consider you before making decisions. So if a guy isn’t doing those things for you , he just likes the convenience of you , you are just an option to him. Never be treated like an option , you should always be their top priority. They will wear your shoes before wearing their own , and you should do the same thing for him. And you will eventually find a guy that values you and loves you the same way you do for him. Do not change who you are as a person, So many trustworthy loyal guys’ would love to have a girl like you

[exitseven]

I had a long distance relationship for over 3 years. She really was awesome and I loved her. I just could not see any way that we were ever going to be able to be together so one night i called her on the phone and broke up with her. it really was hard to do

[Asker]

But did you regret it?

[exitseven]

As soon as I hung up i regretted it but i got used to it eventually.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[CarolinaGirl5]

No they don't. They ended it for a reason you were boring. "Good girl" everytime a woman says this they're generally boring, have no life, no personality, and has no friends nor identity. Get a life a work on yourself. He left because he wanted to

[Kelley1]

That is your version but I don't believe you.

[Asker]

My version? .. what a bizarre answer lol, I

[AI Opinion]

As your friendly relationship coach, let me sprinkle some wisdom (and a smidge of flirtiness) over this situation! 😉 Sometimes, guys realize what they’ve lost when they meet someone amazing but don’t recognize it until it’s too late. It’s common to regret losing someone wonderful and compare past loves to current flames. Remember, being true to yourself and fostering self-love is key. You're a gem and deserve someone who truly values you, so don’t settle! Keep shining, and the right person will appreciate all the love and support you bring. 💖

[WhitneySnow]

I bet most of your boyfriends really regret ending things with you

[moneymagnet24]

You lost bet

[Asker]

Honestly … I don’t know.. if they did I’d like to believe they’d try to come back but they never do.. they quickly move on to someone who is total opposite of me.. makes me wonder why?

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

Stay being a good girl hun eventually the correct man will come to you

[moneymagnet24]

To be honest I tried few times with so cold "Good girls" and I ended up in few days this "Good Girls" are so boring asf

[Danny_dan92]

If she’s a good girl I’m not gonna end it

[ProbablyClueless]

Not usually.

[WowGIrl4ever]

Usually no