Do guys regret losing a good girl?

Question

We was in a bit of a long distance relationship I lived in a different town we have been on and off for almost four years. He's cheated in the past and we moved on from it then I found out that he is living with another girl for the last five months. i confronted him he didn't lie. He said he loved me and said if I moved it would be different. I told him I found out by seeing his mum. he got upset thinking I went behind his back cut a long story short he lashed out and hit a man and is now looking at going to prison for 2years. To make it worce he picked the other girl over me. I have been there every time he needed me helped with money problems when he had no job always forgave him for comparing me to other girls as im skinny and he always liked curve / big girls Now I feel worthless and don't know how to deal. Will he even regret losing me?

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

your question is about your feelings, like did he ever really love you and such. It's very personal and I can understand that.

But it didn't sound like it worked, he cared enough, you're what he thought was good for him, at this time in life. You may have been perfect for him, but he can't see it.

So we don't know what he is thinking. A lot of times a guy who has feelings... some do not or don't care and are terribly selfish... will remember you, the good things, and mis that as he learns how miserable some of these other females can be. If he's more on the "lack of feeling/emotion", then he doesn't care and maybe never did. You being such a softie, makes me think he's a cold fish/narcissist. But I don't know for sure...

sloppyjoe · Accepted Answer

You always regret losing people you care about/love, even if you don't outwardly show it. A lot of times you've made your bed and now have to lie in it, but you feel gutted about the decision you made and whether it was the correct one. That was a very roundabout way to say, I'm sure he will regret you as the one that got away. However, you shouldn't care too much, I know it's nice to think that you meant that much to someone, but you are worth too much to worry about what he thinks of you. He choose to cheat, and he acted like a dick when he was around you, you deserve better than that, you deserve someone who doesn't compare you to others, because nobody can compare to you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

thats some pretty low standards. i dont even know why you're worried if he would regret losing you, i think you should regret wasting your time on a guy like him.

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

I'm sorry you went through all of this. I can't tell you for sure whether he'll regret losing you. It depends on how dumb he is.

You really shouldn't feel worthless. The guy was a lying cheater. You don't deserve that. Even if he does regret it... I hope YOU are smart enough not to get back together with him. Find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated. This guy's beneath you.

vedgtn · Answer

If he doesn't, isn't that a sign in itself? Sure, he could come around, feel bad about himself, and regret his actions, but will that benefit you? Only if he improves himself, and plenty of people will flat out lie to you claiming regrets and still try to manipulate you.

So you aren't worthless, you need to realize you did better by him than he returned and decided how you want your life to go. Odds are, you will be safer in choosing to be without him.

bryenjavier · Answer

I always regret losing someone who was good to me, but I do my best not to show it because otherwise I would just radiate sadness and it would suck for everyone around me haha

Passinggas · Answer

I screwed up with one ex that was more than half American Indian and we were just both too young and too stupid but I know now that she would have been a keeper. When I saw her afterwards I could sense that she also felt some regret.

serious · Answer

It seems that you are a person of soft heart, a nice person as well. The answer to your question is yes a man can regret losing a good girl.

BCA6010 · Answer

Well I've never "lost" a girl who didn't turn out to deserve less than me anyway, but I suppose it *could* happen.

JamesBlackDragon · Answer

Never lost a girl I was in love with but if it does happen I don't think I would regret it I will hope that she finds happiness with or without me because I know I will whether it's by myself or with someone else

Koalamate · Answer

He may not regret it now why he's still seeing this girl but i think when she dumps him he will regret it.

elite665 · Answer

I do but we were never in a relationship and I did not realize till too late that is what I wanted

Cage4 · Answer

Why do you even care at this point? He doesn't care anymore. I know its hard and all to forget but you gotta move on. It'll probably take time and well am sorry that happened

MackToday · Answer

Guy's a cheap thug and a moron. Why associate with him at all?

Laozi · Answer

Yeah they do when they choose bad girl after losing good one.

Ianto · Answer

Not as much as they regret finding a bad one. 😄 Your case seems clear. He is happy to use you, but never really found you to lose.

Unit1 · Answer

Regret, remorse and faithfulness? These are not in the cheater's DNA.

Caleb103 · Answer

Will he, probably not. I say that people do regret letting the good girl go

Walrus_au · Answer

Maybe, but you should not regret getting out before you got trapped.

SandaP · Answer

Never had a good girl. But hey in every woman is something good you only have to stick it inside yourself.

whynotsoundsfun · Answer

Yes, very much. I going through a similar experience my wife is threw with my b/s and I already miss her immensely!

Anonymous · Answer

Just move on, he is not worth your time, he is scum that makes bad name for all men.

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

Men regret losing almost any woman.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

yes and yes, sooner or later

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Nope. He was using you.

Frodoberry · Answer

I want someone to share opinions please!

Anonymous · Answer

Lol is there such a thing as a good girl?

ask4any · Answer

Everytime

Do guys regret losing a good girl?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said