I contacted my ex boyfriend...He seemed happy to hear from me, guys and girls some advice please

[teapot1985]

I broke up with my ex in Jan this year over something really stupid and I regretted it after, I guess it was cos I was afraid of losing him and I'd rather leave him than let him hurt me and when I tried to get back together he didn't want to. Last time we saw each other I gave him the birthday present and Valentine's day present I got for him cos I knew I wouldn't see him and it was emotional he cried but when I asked why he wouldn't say and when I said I want him back I'm sorry he didn't want to come back. He kept calling me all the time then I told him not to contact me anymore cos its too hard for me...well its been 7 months, and I miss him so much and I think about him everyday. I wake up crying cos I know he loved me and I loved him so much its just I was just scared cos he seemed too perfect. I contacted him yesterday sent a message to his phone and he replied back withing a minute, he was like its weird I wanted to text you today but I was so scared and we texted back and forth until 3am then I said goodnight.

He said that he wanted to text me happy birthday on June 15 but was scared cos I told him not to contact me and he had a really weird day that day and was like when he went to visit family abroad for a month he was always thinking about me. I told him I had a presentation to do next day and he text me following day wishing me good luck.

I still love him and I know he is the most nicest person on earth and even if he never wants a relationship with me, I will still care about and some part of me will always love him cos he treated me so well. He is the one that I will always regret letting go. I want to know do you think he still cares about me and is there a chance of us again? Has anyone been in same situation and what happened? Thanks to everyone

[BambiBites]

oh I totally know what you mean hun iv been there with my first love honestly I think he still loves you but maybe he's just afraid that if you two got back together that youd leave him again?or maybe he has someone else in mind and that's why he won't get back with you or maybe he just wants to be single for a while who knows but if I were you id give him a bit of space but not TO much space cause then you might possibly lose getting back with him. ALSO maybe you just gotta prove you really love him and care for him don't buy him things cause that just makes it look as if your trying to buy your way back in now with say that I know you getting him birthday presents and Valentine's day presents wasn't buying your way in! :) but yeah do something romantic or really sweet and nice for him!...You could write him a poem or a song :) describing just how much you really care for him and how sorry you are that you let such an amazing person go! I mean I know some guys aren't really all that romantic or are really that into romance, I'm not sure if he's romantic to you or not he sounds like he is but yeah its the thought that counts you know?! :) and he'll know you care! :) Hope that helps a bit hun! :D

[Luv2Rock89]

he obviously still has feelings for you if he thinks about you often. if you regret letting him go make sure he fully understand why. if you want him back you have to be the one to put forth a lot of the effort since you're the one who let him go. I do think there is a chance that you two can be in a relationship again, he just has to fully trust you. show him how much you care for him & tell him you're ready to be in a relationship with him now instead of back then when you were scared of your emotions. tell him you've had time to think about what you want, and it's him.