My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We live together and everything. Out of the blue this chick (who has a boyfriend and also has a house with this guy) contacts my boyfriend. He did tell me about it and she also wanted to meet up for drinks with him. Should I be worried? It started out where the phone rang and he seemed puzzled letting me know it was an ex. He also mentioned that he got a text from her earlier. A few minutes later, the two texted each other back and forth. Not a whole lot, because by the 3rd time I got really peed off and went to get ready for bed. He only dated her for 10 months, did exchange the I love you, and broke up due to the relationship feeling like a friendship. I think its weird that out of no where she's reaching out to him now. Like I am sure they have exchanged words in the past cause they are friends on Facebook. Should I be worried. I mean he did tell me about and he told me he isn't going to see her. Could she just be really being nice by saying hi?
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I wouldn't worry about them getting back together; if that was going to happen, they would have done that before he ever met you. However, I don't think it's good for him to be going out for drinks with her alone. I don't expect them to do anything, but it sends the wrong message to you. The best thing is for him to leave the past in the past, where it belongs.0