Are handsome men viewed with more suspicion than a ugly man if he is single? if so why is that?

[shades777]

[Anonymous]

Attract or ugly. Some people overestimate their looks and shoot too high, and still may be complete dirtbags.


Like at that guy who cheated on Sniperwolf. She's beautiful and he's just average, and he still cheated.

[kylee2437]

That guy is below average. He messed up, he’s never going to find a girl that looks like her ever again lol

[Opinion Owner]

Definitely. He will never land a woman like her again. He will be kicking himself sooner or later. What a loser he is 🤣

[shades777]

Yea I get hypotheticals but im not talking about men who think their handsome... talking about handsome men lol

[Opinion Owner]

@shades777
Oh, I guess handsome men have been stereotyped as players, users and cheaters. I am sure not all of them are like that. Always being compliment on your looks would definitely give you a sense of superiority and the feeling of being untouchable.

[shades777]

Women aren't that forthcoming with the compliments, unless their old or married

[Opinion Owner]

A compliment is still a compliment. And, the attractive man would notice how women act around him. It would definitely boost his ego about himself.

[shades777]

who doesn't enjoy a genuine compliment haha

[kylee2437]

Yeah men that know they are attractive typically have bigger egos to maintain which is why it’s harder for them to settle.

[Opinion Owner]

So true. I think a mega ego would cause both men and women issues with settling down

[kylee2437]

I guess so. I usually associate attractive single men as players /men that don’t want to settle down/ hold lifestyles that don’t allow a woman to love him correctly

[shades777]

interesting perspective

[Anonymous]

It really depends on her and how many bad choices she's made leading up to him. If she's made a lot of bad choices dating handsome douchebags, that's on her not this guy.

[shades777]

good point, her life experience is a primer but she's got to know the next handsome isn't the last handsome she dealt with

[Opinion Owner]

You would think so. But this is NOT the way a woman's mind works. This is why I try to tell women why guy date young. Women think it's about youth. But that's not the real reason. It's because a guy knows (at least older guys know). That a woman who has had 20 relationships is judging him by all 20 of those other guys. No guy wants to deal with that. So guys seek women who tend to be more of a blank slate.

[shades777]

Right instead of learning from the positive experiences she may focus on the negative and carry it over to the next guy like a remainder

[Ms_Facesitter]

No. I have my guard up with any man until proven otherwise.

[Anonymous]

No. He's likely a stud playing the field