Do you consider men who have been single for years by choice to be attractive or unattractive?

[Heartache0405]

They’re attractive

I don’t find them attractive

[MelonSoda]

I don't see why this would make them attractive or unattractive lmao. I assume they just haven't found the right person, yet. Either that or a previous relationship messed them up really badly and they don't wanna potentially be caught up in that mess all over again.

[lilyanony1]

This was a hard one.
Why was he single?
Did he still mess around?
Is he bitter, or positive?
Has he still been really sociable?
Is he open to meeting someone now, or is he insecure?

[Heartache0405]

Why was he single? Too many shitty experiences.

Did he still mess around? No

Is he bitter, or positive? Somewhere inbetween.

Has he still been really sociable? Not in terms of meeting anyone new, no.

Is he open to meeting someone new, or is he insecure? Neither

[lilyanony1]

Thanks for mho x

[Desconhecida]

Yes and no. What difference does it make how long someone has been single?

[shaysh87]

men who are single by choice do not tend to easily make emotional attachments to people and tend ot be more wishy washy. Its definitely not an attractive trait. if im looking for a husband, im looking for a man who will miss me when im gone. Not a man who wouldn't care if I hadn't seen him in 5 days

[cryscrys1]

Guys I know who are attractive are single. Because it’s nothing wrong to be alone for some time. Opening your legs and releasing oxytocin is not everything in life , for some people. If you can’t handle it then go have some 20 min release. Good for you

[hi_it_is_me123]

Very attractive since it means that he has a good self-control instead of sleeping around.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Men also want sex more than women so far i know. So he has to be very good at controlling himself which is very attractive/manly in my opinion

[Heartache0405]

There are sexless men out there. I’m one of them and I met a few others on here too. Those are the ones I’m talking about.

[hi_it_is_me123]

As i said it is very attractive.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Wait do you mean asexual men?

[Heartache0405]

Asexual, celibate, sexless, whatever you wanna call them.

[taylorallen]

It's a neutral opinion for me. The previous relationship is what matters tbh, not how long ago it was.

[CarolineW]

Experience has taught me that they're usually single for a reason

[Dinklex3]

Their relationship status has no factor on if they're attractive or unattractive to me.

[Raphaëlle]

Nothing wrong with being single. It doesn't have anything to do with being attractive or unattractive.

[Ninani]

Neither. How long they've been single doesn't affect how I perceive them.

[princessxx2]

They're good but bad in bed and also sort of I don't know immature. So not emotionally developed

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I prefer a guy that is single then if a guy is taken. Single guys are more attratives then taken guys.

[SnakeBoop]

Neither. Would also depend on why they've chosen that. Incel vibes means time to move on.

[Anonymous]

I would think it’s because they either think they’re too good for anyone else or they’re too career based to the point where they stay single by choice because they're so focused.

[Mavie123]

I don't judge so maybe he is just picky..
maybe he was focused on work.

[Anonymous]

I just assume something must be wrong with them.

[Heartache0405]

Why?

[linka_pat307]

Really attractive cuz they were stress free

[moonpie89]

Neither. It's whatever