I dont think a girl will ever find me attractive, or want to go on a date with me?

[Anonymous]

Im 5’7, average build, average looking, I ask girls for their numbers, most of them say no. When I get a girls number, they dont want to text me or hangout after i get to know them, or go on a date.
No girls ever asked for my number or snapchat.

[Truthatanycost]

We are / become whatever we think. I am 5'7 and assume most women find me attractive... and they do. If they don't, I don't care...

If you have two identical men. The one that says 'Women don't find me attractive' and the one that says 'Women do find me attractive'... both of them are correct.

You mentioned 'average build' that is something you can change if you wish. I prefer to go for superhuman strength through isometrics but that still builds some muscle but you get the idea.

But to be really honest, you are better of focusing on discovering your life purpose, then focusing on that and becoming financially free. When I hit 30 years old, I had more interest from women of all ages than when I was 20.

[SnowedIn]

It's your attitude not your looks or height or anything else.

Gonrewd through your questions here on this site. It's that whining that girls don't find attractive.

[Asker]

I dont whine to girls, I think its the cynical bland personality

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for MHO

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Offcourse what you say is true.

Untill and unless you give them something to be attracted to they won't be !!

They don't want you to be intrested in them and show whole lot of intrest in them it creeps them out.

Why the fuck is he that intrested in me and family or my dog , doesn't he have any other work? Or his he that desperate !!

So what you need to do is make your life intresting and you liking yourself and having a content life with adventures and excitement.

The thing with girls is that they want to be part of your world and not you as part of there world at least in the initial selection process.

Then it's all same pay attention to me , listen to me blah blah blah.

So build your life and do inward awareness and the girls will become attracted to you 🙃.