Girls, Why dont women find me attractive?

[Anonymous]

I am 5'6", slightly muscular, dark blonde hair, hazel eyes, and a decent smile. I wear my hair military style because I am in law enforcement and have a stubbly groomed beard (edged and trimmed). I'm a little on the quiet side and don't really flirt with women ( because I'm clueless on how to flirt). I always seem to get overlooked. Women are in favor of tall men where I'm from and I didn't win the genetic lottery on that one. Am I doomed?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Its probably confidence then. My brother is 5'4 and has brittle bone disease and he still managed to date and marry a high school cheerleader. He didn't let his disadvantages bother him. He knew what he wanted and went for it. You need to be doing the same and learn those traits like confidence and how to flirt as those are learnable traits you can change about yourself.

[kitkatto]

I think your height is a bit of a disadvantage but you’re not doomed by any means. The way you carry yourself is important. Two of my cousins are shorter (one’s 5’7 and the other one’s 5’6) but they never had any problem with girls because they’re confident and are sure of themselves.

[DryGermanGuy]

You could moonlight as a cop stripper and get to meet new women that way. 🤔🥳

[Jay-_-]

I don't know man we on the same boat... Lol

[In_Trance]

Must be something you say or do (or not)

[Anonymous]

Women do not find me attractive either.