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I was supposed to meet this guy for breakfast one day, we were chatting and we got on the topic of sex. We are 26 and 28. So it's a topic to talk about as adults, didn't upset me. I told him I was a virgin, he basically told me that it was pointless to talk and that he was matured and experienced. I was upset, crying for awhile. It was like he was upset about it. He apologized later saying he was in a bad mood. So then he crawls back again to me. And we made plans to meet again Friday. But I blocked him cause something seemed off. I wasn't hearing from him.
He got arrested on the 15th, for strangulation and blocked the air flow of someone that was the charge. He said his ex came over to his place and his sister and his ex got into a fight. He said his ex called the police and said it was him that hurt her. I want to believe it but he's Hispanic and Hispanic and black men are really violent growing up in bad environments. I don't know what I thought what I was getting into dating colored men.
He got arrested on the 15th, for strangulation and blocked the air flow of someone that was the charge. He said his ex came over to his place and his sister and his ex got into a fight. He said his ex called the police and said it was him that hurt her. I want to believe it but he's Hispanic and Hispanic and black men are really violent growing up in bad environments. I don't know what I thought what I was getting into dating colored men.
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I agree that you should block him and move on. He's clearly bad news.
And yeah, if that's your perception of "colored" men, then it probably wouldn't have worked out anyway.
Because it's true. No one talks about it because they are deemed as racist.
I'm all for free speech and free thought. I'm aware of the crime statistic disparities. At most I think 'colored' is kind of an outdated word, but maybe that's normal verbage where you come from. And I don't think it's racist to talk about statistics.
I just try not to judge individuals based on other people's actions or write people off over generalizations about their skin color, race, ethnicity, creed, sexuality, etc. When I meet someone, I try to start from a clean slate and I've met a lot of great people that way. You do you though.
"he basically told me that it was pointless to talk and that he was matured and experienced"
What an ass. Pay no attention to that. Stop dating thugs.
There are thugs and gentlemen of every color.
I haven't met one single black man or Hispanic man who wasn't. I like them but they are always "rough".