My partner was on tinder?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know what to do.

he said it was an application error and it was because he hadn’t removed his profile which I could believe but it said active today and his location changed. My friend found the profile and sent it to me. I don’t use it as I’m in a committed relationship.

Now he’s restricted me on instagram from seeing his stories. Is there any reason he could restrict me from seeing his stories that is legitimate?

Updates

+1 y

Thank you for your responses. I’ve found out he was on tinder and has been lying. He has been telling me I’m crazy and damaged for the last few months. I’ve now found out I’m pregnant and I’m absolutely terrified. I have no idea what I’m going to do

[_Maya_]

Sounds like he is either playing childish games or hiding something to me. I don't know many people that would need to be on a dating or hookup site if they were in a relationship unless they were cheating or thinking about cheating. He could also be seeing what else is out there and not committed to you. I would ask him why. If he says he isn't, show him that you know and demand an explanation. Everyone has a right to privacy but you also have a right for your partner to be honest.

[RyanK9b]

Dafuq. How to type obvious as a text.. See above.

he's hiding something, guess what it is...
Probably not a birthday cake.

If you still struggle, ask a friend to create a fake tinder profile and let her or him find out what he wants on tinder.

But come on.. I bet you already know what ls going on

[RyanK9b]

Option A:
Tell him and see how he react and decide on that

Option B:
Abort the child and leave him. A bit harsh for such a lie

[pethouse]

From your point of view it sounds like he’s cheating, im sorry that’s happening

[ShesRad80]

he hiding something

[PragmaticProfit]

He’s cheating

[boggboss]

Yeah he is cheating

[boggboss]

Looks like u will have a kid in a unstable relationship or be a single parent

[Jazzy54]

He’s cheating.