Thin ice, my friend. I understand your concern, but then again, if you were to say something it may jeopardize their lives. Things may go out of control, leaving you to soak up all the blame in the aftermath. If you do wish to get involved, knowing the risks and willing to take them, I'd say offer the guy a chance to clarify the matter, come clean or change his ways. Do not threaten, or accuse. Just talk to him and find out why he is on tinder. It still may backfire, since if he's a paranoid/morally bankrupt guy he'll try to turn the situation to his favor. But he might actually be confused/conflicted and decide to remedy the situation. Up to you though.
I think you should tell her, but also stress that she needs to talk about it with him rather than just kicking him out and not speaking to him about it. It may not be an active account. If it turns out to not be an active account, you don't want him to hate you.
I think it'd be a great show of concern and loyalty towards your friend. She might know, she might not.. I think that, regardless, it's a bit of a red flag situation.. even if it turns out being nothing in the end.. for example, an old account or something. You have nothing to lose.. and I think it's a good service towards your friend.. because what *if* he's cheating on her? Nobody deserves that sort of thing. And you wouldn't want your friend to be stuck in a false relationship, would you? Wouldn't you want her to do the same thing if she was in your shoes?
I hope this helps! :)
I’d mention it, yeah. She has a right to know. But remember that you don’t really know what’s actually going on. It’s certainly suspicious, but doesn’t necessarily mean he’s definitely cheating. She needs to talk to him about it and find out exactly what is happening.
Yes but don’t assume he’s cheating. I haven’t had tinder since August but people still add my snap saying they saw me on tinder. I’ve deleted the app but I guess I just didn’t delete my profile. I’m too lazy to download the app just do delete my profile tho lol
Yeah. If you care about her, sure. Now what she decided to do after the fact is not your business. But you never know, she may have always known he had it or perhaps she met him on there and never told you. You don't know.
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First off, your name is dope tahah.
But back to the topic yes tell her, always be open and honest with your friends you owe it to them.
Don't do it. Maybe he made an account a while back and just hasn't deleted it yet. Women tend to overreact and be ultra dramatic. I have a feeling he's probably not doing anything wrong and if you told your friend she's overreact and leave him for no good reason.
I think it fun to stay silent
adopt a Tinder alias
and engage with him on Tinder
to see how far this might go
and later throw out some of his Tinder phrases in passing conversations to see the look on his face
and if he will then jettison his Tinder ways
if you feel comfortable confronting him about it i would tell him that you saw it and you want to give him a chance to come clean about it to your friend but that if he won't you feel obligated to tell her.
but ultimately yes if he won't come clean or you don't want to approach him about it you absolutely should tell your friend
You would want to know if your boyfriend was going out banging random sluts from the internet and then coming home and kissing you on the lips and bringing their diseases into your bed.
I knew a girl who caught a disease that way and she ended up staying with the guy who gave it to her, because who else would want her? Hell of a thing to have happen to your life. Be sadder still if you could have saved her and you didn't. You wouldn't be much of a good person, let alone her friend.
You should tell her. Love your screen name, by the way.
There's a possibility she might know. They could be looking for a plus one; a lot of couples are doing it. Or it could be inactive. But I think you should talk to him fist before you make an assumption.
I think it would be good to tell her. But don't make it out as if he is bad - it might be worth looking into it before freaking out. As others said, it could be an inactive account.
I'd say tell her, it doesn't have to be something serious but its good for your friend to know so she can ask her boyfriend what the profile is about.
Yes! But he may not be active on it, make sure you say that to her too.
you wouldn't be a good friend if you didn't tell her. besides, if it was a mistake he can explain it for himself.
I would tell her, but just keep in mind just having a profile on Tinder doesn't mean he's actively on it. He could have deleted the app and still have an open profile.
Yes straight up his cheating and it's best to know now then know later and for her to find out you knew all that time
(Note: age is wrong I'm 17)
Hell no or just mention it she might already know its just a tinder account it doesn't mean anything tbh. Or they are looking for a threesome
Who knows when he put himself up on tinder. Very few people bother to take their profiles down once they find a partner. Did he message you on tinder? Do you know he's active on it? If not, then leave it the fuck alone. None of your business.
You're just gonna make the world burn for nothing. It is more likely an old account that he forgot to delete
Take it up with him, depending on what happens tell her
Ask him discreetly one-on-one and the decide based on his reaction. (nit that i said ASK not confront)
Tell her. You would want her to do the same for you.
having a tinder profile means nothing. as long as you don't see him actively cheating, you don't have a reason to make others worry.
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