I matched with a guy I know on tinder - then this happened?

[Anonymous]

I’m new to tinder and a few weeks ago I matched with a guy I have lots of mutual friends with and we are from the same place.

I’ve always had him on Facebook and Instagram but we’ve never really spoke much.

After I matched with him we never spoke once on tinder, however, he then started to like some of my photos on Instagram and liked my profile pic etc and then he added me on snapchat.

He always watches my stories now too.

I never went back on to tinder until yesterday when I noticed he had disappeared from my matches.

Do you think he unmatched me or maybe just deleted his account?
Men are so confusing. I hate tinder.

[boggboss]

Men are not confusing both off you was playing games waiting for the other to send the first message as for if he deleted it or not its impossible to say

[Asker]

Yeah I’m just disappointed he didn’t message since he started liking all my pics etc only after we matched.. oh well!

[keenmind2007]

It could be both, but without asking, it's just a guess and spell game. I agree that you should've spoken with him earlier but you have Instagram and snapchat- other platforms to communicate. Use them🙂

[WesBrewer]

Tinder is stupid and doesn't work anyway, he probably un-matched

[boxcarjoe]

He was waiting for you to message first to see if you were actually interested

[Asker]

I was interested! Oh well I blew it.

[boxcarjoe]

Shoot your shot 💁‍♂️

[Asker]

He’s gone now haha! 😂😭

[Wise4myage]

He probably lost interests, or found somebody else.