There’s this guy who I am interested in. Someone in my family is good friends with all of them? I was thinking about dm him but I’m nervous too?

[Anonymous]

Because things get complicated what should indo

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I requested him on Instagram and I’m hoping this goes well we would really work well together… I don't know what I’ll say if my family member asks that’s what I’m worried about advice

[Anonymous]

I know it’s nerve wrecking to DM him first. But I think you should give it a shot! The guy I’m interested in slid into my DMs, and complimented my posts and stories. Maybe try asking how he’s doing or how his day is going! You got this!

[Asker]

But my family member knows them and idk… I was gonna say we got a lot in common and would like to get to know him
More but I don't know

[Asker]

But my family member knows them well and I don't know it’s complicated.. I was gonna dm him saying we got a lot in common and I’d like to ge to know him more but I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah honestly that would be great to let him know just so that he’s not questioning your intentions. Also I know it can be awkward to think about your family member knowing them. I’m sure your family member would support you and be happy about it. It’s actually a really good sign if the guy your interested in gets along with your family member. That actually makes it easier to bring him into your life.

[Asker]

I want to request him first before messaging him but I’m really nervous too. I don't know how to bring this up to my family member with out looking crazy

[Pyrofox]

Just ask them out. Things are only awkward as you make them.

[Jessicasmidgen86]

DM him!

[Anonymous]

Go for it