Men what do you think of women who just want to be single?

[cth2188]

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As I can see some of you men allowed this post to trigger your emotions there's many reasons why a woman chooses to be single- stop projecting under this post because you have a fear of being alone and single

[RavVid]

It is up to them and I don't need to think about it.

I think it should be declared though so everybody knows where they are and what the single woman wants. For example she might want hook ups only or friends with benefits or maybe affairs where there is sex with a tinge of romance.

[cth2188]

I don't want that from men either I'm ok with strictly platonic friendships

[cth2188]

I'm celibate honey

[RavVid]

That is fine. My comment was generic and not specific.

[SnowedIn]

That that is their choice and I wish them well. That said, I do think most humans are meant to be partnered/in relationships and that it's worth trying. But if a woman wants to be single and she's happy, then go for it! :)

[cth2188]

Noooo ny nerves are too bad for a relationship I'm single a whileeeee

[SnowedIn]

All good then! 🙂 It's gotta work for you.

[cth2188]

Been single 11 years I can't deal with the toxicity of dating too many toxic people out here

[cth2188]

My dating is too much and need peace of

[cth2188]

Mind and serenity

[SnowedIn]

All of that makes total sense. 🙂

[Malwi93]

like
80 percent of them is toxic

[cth2188]

Whose 80% @Malwi93

[Malwi93]

of men lol

[cth2188]

Oh yes hun I come across them everyday I lobe my life away from the drama, toxicity, and bs... Less is better I wish they get their passports and go 🚶‍♂️ just leave women along who want to be left alone !

[cth2188]

I'm at the place just leave me alone men antagonize me plus cause pain emotionally / mentally 💔 women aren't signing up for it anymore then they wonder why women respond the way they do. Look how they treat women.. I can lie in my apartment and look at my 4 walls without a care in the world 🌎

[_SillyShoes_]

It's none of their business, so I don't think they think anything of it.

Now if someone was interested in you and didn't know this fact, then there might be some disappointment, but other than that, it's a pretty legitimate way of life. :)

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I think they might have been hurt pretty hard, because it’s not natural to want to be alone. We all want to love and be loved.

[cth2188]

Not dealing with these males of today and men are small in number - I choose me

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yeah, but for me it would mean not having sex, as I can’t have sex without feelings. So, I guess it’s a physical need for me to be in love.

[cth2188]

Until I find a man who measures up to that department I'll stay single - most of these men of today are trash 🗑

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

They might be, but If I stay single a bit more longer, I think I’d die of side effects caused by lack of sex.

[cth2188]

What my jac rabbit vibrator is for

[cth2188]

Jack rabbit

[cth2188]

Gets the job done no stds no pregnancy

[cth2188]

No community dick

[cth2188]

No cheating no headache no stress

[cth2188]

Likelihood of finding a man not sleeping around nowadays 1 to 0

[RavVid]

I like my own company but yes sex has it's bonding aspects. I'd agree on the love side too which is why we have pets

[MementoMori777]

"damn there goes my chances"

[cth2188]

What

[cth2188]

😆 🤣 . Ummm

[MementoMori777]

😂😂

[cth2188]

I don't want too see another relationship again

[MementoMori777]

why is that? 🤔

[cth2188]

Why should I? My mental/ emotional health can't deal with it

[MementoMori777]

are you freshly out of a relationship?

[cth2188]

I've been single 11 years

[MementoMori777]

so you dont desire a love life anymore? 🙃

[cth2188]

No I'm done in that department

[cth2188]

I choose me as I'm happier with friends and having fun then relationships/ commitment

[MementoMori777]

alright, well my best wishes for you 😆💯

[cth2188]

Maybe one day I'll change my mind

[MementoMori777]

perhaps

[cth2188]

It's bleek no chance there

[MementoMori777]

all you need is a small taste of it and you'll probably crave it, its like being off crack for 11 years then get a bit and you back on it lol

[cth2188]

Nah I'm good 👍 😌 most men can't measure up sorry ! I don't have time to teach men how to be men ! I'm just at peace nowadays... I don't deal with bare minimum males !

[MementoMori777]

fair enough i guess, either ways have a good life 🤣💯

[cth2188]

It's been fine 11 years since 2014 I will keep peace of mind

[MementoMori777]

well peace of mind is good missy, very good, if you can keep a peace of mind and be single then thata good on you, i hope it stays that way 😁💯

[asphaltrhymes]

I'm cool with it, it's how i am enjoying my manly life as a single man lol ♂️ and a ram lol for a male emojii lol 🐏 gives me a Ram lol my phone keyboard lol

[Andres77]

Can we still be friends?

for example, I’m never ever getting married again.

[cth2188]

Yes aren't we friends

[Andres77]

I meant…there’s no problem staying single. You can still have quality friendships and stay single.

[cth2188]

Sure

[cth2188]

I was talking about here us being friends

[Andres77]

I realized that after. Yes. For which I’m grateful.

[cth2188]

I appericate that

[ArrowheadSW]

More power to them. Marriage certainly isn't for everyone. Not everyone is happy with marriage.

[Jerre]

It is not a problem with me as I also want to be single.

[Jerre]

@cth2188 Thank you for the Like

[Jerre]

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[cth2188]

YW!💜

[cth2188]

Sure

[Sparkie460]

I don't think anything about it. It's their choice. Some people don't want the baggage of being married. They want to be their own person doing whatever they want, whenever they want

[htmndg183]

I'll just think that she has her own life and goals to work on and maybe doesn't have time for it or can't afford it. Albeit that is only a possibility. The other thought in mind would be: she's happy in her life and is cherishing her moments.

[cth2188]

Agreed 100

[ProbablyClueless]

They're adults; they can do whatever they feel like doing.

People like that always have a reason for their behavior, so I would assume that they are genuinely trying to do me a favor.

[gothbxtch]

i’m a girl but. anyone wanting to be single or not wanting to be single is fine.

[DextroShade]

They better have their shit together so they don't come asking for a handout because they can't take care of themselves. If you want to be a cat lady don't expect the men you forsook to pay for it. I don't think most of them will.

[king34]

I think that she doesn't value men tbh. Also most girls who want to be single have a messed up past in my experience. Short answer i guess I just find it sad.

[cth2188]

I don't why it's sad noone is obligated to deal with toxic masculinity or men who have baggage - coming across men who can't get unglued from their mama's and giving women bare minimum. They don't want marriage or anything

[cth2188]

Humanity is sad all together

[cth2188]

I'm ok with friends but dealing with men of today no - I love my single and peaceful life the mintue a man man enters into my life the problems begin

[king34]

@cth2188 You're statements just proved everything I've said right.
You asked what we thought of it. And I told you, it wasn't an insult, to me it's just genuinely sad.

It's sad that you're a broken person, it's sad that you don't value the men that do sooo much for you, it's sad that you've had bad experiences, it's sad you've made bad decisions and it's sad you live you're life in negativity and it's sad that you've become so antagonistic toward half of humanity because of you're personal issues. Its sad that youve turned to misandry in desperation to excuse your faults and failures.

The list can go on it's just sad in many ways, I don't know why your triggered by it. you litteraly asked for opinions lol. Not everyone will sugar coat things and coddle you're feelings.

Only broken people who are bitter angry and in pain and have a bunch of emotional issues, choose to be single. Sorry if that hurts your feelings it's not meant to be demeaning it's just the reality, don't shoot the messenger. Why are you acting like you have something to prove if your confident in your lifestyle and stability.

hope you're day gets better.

[cth2188]

I'm not a broken person I have a zero tolerance for bs and negativity nor do. insettle for less then what I deserve the issue most of you men can't measure up to masculinity or what it takes to be a man so I rather be single then settle or be hurt

[cth2188]

Not angry or bitter, not tolerating you, crappy's men behavior - when I'm done with you that's it ! The problem men of today men expect women to settle for their bs simply because they're a man instead of doing the work to be a better man

[cth2188]

The mintue a man enters into my quiet peace of life the problems began- the toxic masculinity.. I'm in theraphy 1 a week from trauma inflicted by you men - if you don't come right don't come at all !

[cth2188]

my statements prove why being single is best 👌 because I refuse to deal with anything that doesn't serve me

[cth2188]

I've been through enough with men why I'm single so I guess it's my fault taht trauma was inflicted ok - avoiding you men is for my well being mentally and emotionally became stronger since recognizing these red flags men bring or anyone

[cth2188]

That ^ peace of mind is best

[cth2188]

Some women are simply done with bare minimum males no thanks

[king34]

You've basically agreed with me in saying everything you just said.

I'm still confused as to why you're so triggered? 😕 you asked the question, and got an answer, and everything you saying lines up with what I said, so I don't get it lol.

Maybe trying to argue about nothing makes you feel better.

Don't worry I understand your angry and irrational, and you're in pain, and you need to take it out on someone so I won't hold any of this against you, take it out on me, I'll be your punching bag. i have no I'll will toward you. Have a good night. I genuinely hope things work out or get better for you in life. Know you are loved and you are important. And hatred and evil is not the way. You are not alone, we have all been there. Good luck. Genuinely

[cth2188]

I'm not triggered nor a misandrist.. have a short fuse and tolerance to bs

[cth2188]

Broken - no, see how dating is, yes and I'm not signing up for anything that will take away or add stress not needed

[cth2188]

It's not even men I'm choosing- I choose me because the selection of men nowadays are far few in between with pickings... I've never had a man do for me not even remotely.. I don't expect anything from men nowadays most can't even do the top tier less more bare minimum.. I've been doing on my own most of my life

[cth2188]

In pain no at peace single yes - you men can't simply let women be in peace unless your provoking or antagonizing women- overstepping boundaries or disrespect. Me choosing to be single is my choice/ it's staying that way without the headache of men disrespecting...

[strateguy632]

until monthly "reminder and emotion" the one with the pads.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think it's her choice and others should respect her choice.

[Ben487]

I think that's great. Be single or don't be single , it's really whatever floats your boat.

[alearningboy]

Its there choice and when they have the age 30-35 they say im lonely need family

[cth2188]

I don't need the headache I'm on a self love journey

[alearningboy]

Some people love to be single.

[cth2188]

Yep I choose me

[cth2188]

Less heartache , headache, pain

[cth2188]

I don't need the extra stress

[alearningboy]

😃😃 thats true, sometimes being single is the best

[cth2188]

Yes I love my single life

[PurpleiPad]

They don't care.

[mommymommymommy]

The rest of their life?

[cth2188]

Yes could be !

[BoobMan]

Not much, to be honest.

[zagor]

Fine with me; not my business.

[Hardworkingguy]

Well I really don't understand why..

[spartan55]

Enjoy that!

[cth2188]

Sure will as I have been 11 years

[spartan55]

Godspeed

[cth2188]

None needed self preserving is key 🔑

[Jmmmfi4]

THE HELL DO I CARE?

[cth2188]

Why did you respond 😐

[monghjay2]

i didn't even care

[Stevepro68]

Agree

[Reorx]

Go ahead.

[driven159]

that is their choice