I met a man online , he told me he is a doctor and that I'm not allowed to tell my friends or anyone what career he has?

[Anonymous]

He also told me I have to host as he isn't allowed to. I know he drives a nice car etc , is there a high chance he is lying to me

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I can't think of any good reason to hide it. Let's even say he is a doctor. Why would he be concerned with his reputation in a dating context if he didn't have ulterior motives?

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Oh wait, is this outside of a dating context? Like you two are just online acquaintances/friends with no dating interest whatsoever? I could see more legit reasons for a reputable doctor to hide his job in that context.

[fyrds]

Are you sure he's not married? The "not allowed to host" thing would be more of a red flag. Have you even met him at his place (eg not inside, but meet him outside and go somewhere)? Why is he not "allowed" to host? That sounds dodgy...

[EmmaMary]

I would have to call this a complete and utter load of fucking Bollox...BIGGEST RED FLAG.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[slatyb]

Yes, there is. Forget him and meet a man willing to date you on the usual way.

[Anonymous]

Sure, he is a doctor. 🤦‍♀️

[rukus88]

yes, he is playing off of how shallow you are.

[Iron_Man]

Yes he’s a clown

[boggboss]

Did u ask him why