Have you ever been ashamed/embarrassed of how you met your s. o. (not your s. o. themself, just how you met her)?

[Anonymous]

I don't like how i met her because of where it was, im not ashamed of her, of course, just how we met. Is that wrong?

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+1 y

Great answers, keep em coming. This is fun

[OlderAndWiser]

If a guy met his future wife in a whorehouse, I would understand his embarrassment. But I'll assume that is not the situation with you. Why are you embarrassed?

I met my fiancée on a dating app; so fucking what?

[Singing_Hollow]

At first I thought that telling people we met on Tinder would allow them to assume it was a hookup thing however my boyfriend isn't ashamed at all and came to find out most his friends who are married met on Tinder. Ideally a grocery store or a movie inspired way would have been nice buuut at the end of the day it not about how we met but the person I met.

[Asker]

So do you think you settled

[Singing_Hollow]

No not at all. Its not about how we met its about the person I met. I wasn't in a rush to meet anyone and funny enough I deleted Tinder and said I wasn't going back to it. I was super focused on my own things. A friend of mine dared me to go back and just try it one more time, I told myself the first person that matches me Id delete the app and it so happened to be him and its been the most amazing 6 months yet.

[Asker]

Probably not the best idea to delete it but, you do you brah

[Singing_Hollow]

I think deleting a dating app when you are committed to someone already shows honesty and true respect for that person.

[Asker]

nah, not really, but, its whatevs

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

There are very few things that make me feel ashamed and that’s not one of them.

[AviatorTom]

Nope, we met on an online dating site... that's what the site is for.

[Boomchakalaca]

A bit yes. Its cause we met in high school and many people would assume it wouldn't last long but we have been dating for 5 years now

[nawtee_me]

I hope it works out for you both….

[Boomchakalaca]

Gee.. thanks

[EmmaMary]

I'm certainly not in the least bit ashamed/embarrassed in how I met my husband, in fact I'm immensely proud of how my life has become so fulfilled, contented and satisfying.

[asphaltrhymes]

I'm sure people have met former significant others in lots of wacky places. Clubs, food places. I haven't been so lucky lol 😅 😆

[asphaltrhymes]

I doubt many are ashamed 😮 maybe dating apps people cringe 😬

[Nikki1989]

No, not at all. It happened very naturally.

[Starlove4]

We met online but ended up being neighbors lol funny story 😭

[Starlove4]

So we were gonna meet eventually anyways

[Jamie05rhs]

That's really cool.

[TomMarks]

Not ashamed of how I met her, just when I saw how it all ended wish I hadn’t met her to start with.

[Seniorshaker]

Yes because we met when our kids were in a drug rehab center. It wound up being tghe love of my life (second marriage).

[Drumlin2001]

Met ex through friends, and OH through online dating. Pretty standard I think these days.

[SolitarySolace]

I haven’t had a significant other in almost 9 years So I don’t remember

[Fuentes]

No I'd never date or marry a women who could embarrass me

[nawtee_me]

I met my ex in a gentleman’s club she was a dancer there.

[nawtee_me]

Not ashamed at all.

[SnowedIn]

Not one bit. And almost 28 years later...

[Mansearching]

Never. We met a work.

[Jamie05rhs]

Where did you meet her? Lol. Now I'm curious.

[LazerBean]

Nope, not a bit.

[LavLavLuv]

No lol

[Fireguy17]

no, not at all.

[LiamJHayden]

Nope.

[jahaims]

Nope

[In_Trance]

never

[Mariaangel]

Noway

[monghjay2]

no lol

[Angelhor]

Noway