Why do most most men even smart men prefer dumb and docile girls?

[Anonymous]

[ImHere22]

Okay, not most men; that's false and way over generalizing. Not all, or most, guys are the same. Like why would I want to share a life with someone who's not only stupid, but has zero mind for herself and just does anything and everything I ask? I already have a dog, and she still does what she wants (sleeps all day, so hey nothing wrong there.) My wife is smart, doesn't hesitate to call me out on things, and doesn't let anyone push her around. People have tried, and have walked away shook.

Guys who want stupid and docile are warped, controlling men. The kind who run religious organizations, cults, and vote Republican. If you want all decisions, like seriously every single one, ever made for you, then by all means, stop reading and making your own decisions. Let the controlling guy wave his dick around and yell all the time. He's probably abusive in more than one way too... Honestly, get away from those types of men and avoid those types of relationships.

Those are huge red flags and women in those situations are often at the mercy of the males in the family. So no, most guys don't prefer that type of women. At least, my god, I hope not. Like seriously, to have a person just stand around all day staring blankly the wall? Yea, no way would I ever be turned on by her. "Hey robot..."

[inhua]

men don't care about a woman's overall intelligence as long as she's smart enough to not engage in behaviors that put the relationship in jeopardize

having a law degree or engineering degree or any other degree is useless to us. we're not employers. it doesn't matter if she's an expert at Tensor Calculus or just knows how to do her times tables only

and no men don't want dumb girls because dumb girls do stupid shit like spend all our money, do drugs, alcohol and smoking, act slutty in front of our parents, break our stuff and follow society's stupid trends plus many more

[kylee2437]

Yeah no, whoever told you that is lying. Men like women that can teach them a thing or two and any man that doesn’t like that, is most likely a loser.

[Avicenna]

LOL, no. A dumb woman is likely to make less or little money, and more likely to make bad financial and other decisions. A dumb person is also more difficult to communicate with and likely to be boring if you're smart.

[slatyb]

Smart men? Maybe you and I have a different of "smart". I've been in the high-tech bubble all my life and the smart men I know prefer smart women. I think it follows the old saying in business "A's hire A's, B's hire C's"

Confident men prefer capable women, and would rather be wanted than needed. Insecure men choose women less capable than themselves.

[RHK36]

If she can't teach me anything or isn't wanting to strive to be better then I'll be over her real quick. Only boys want a girl they can control. Stop dating boys if this is what you encounter.

[Fireguy17]

I think it is a control thing.
It is easier to get them to do what you want them to do.
I find them kind of boring..

[BoopBoopBeep]

I don't know any men that PREFER dumb women, but I do know several that will put up with dumb if she brings enough to the table.

[Billlewis]

By no means do I want a dumb, docile woman; I want a selfish, arrogant, demanding bitch goddess who will make me docile and make me squirm.

[DarkWinterNights]

“Most” men probably don’t want a woman that’s going to argue and fight with them at every opportunity. I’ve never known a guy who ever inferred that he wanted to marry a dumb woman though.

[BlackJeep]

I love being with a smart woman. I have my own business and love having her input and working with me part time.

[DextroShade]

They are less likely to cause us problems and more likely to give us peace. Men who go out and work hard don't want to have trouble from their woman when they get home.

[Ben487]

I would prefer a woman that's not super opinionated and is reserved. Does that make them dumb?

[Anonymous]

No guy I know wants that. Agreeable? yeah. I think most people regardless of gender wants thier partner to be agreeable. But docile? No!

[strateguy632]

first do the research study before saying most

[Nikki1989]

That is not true at all.

[rukus88]

I can immediately tell this post came from hurt.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't, I prefer smart and docile.

[SmokinAces2000]

Why would anyone want someone who was dumb?

[Anonymous]

i don't i can't stand airheaded dingbats

[In_Trance]

they really don't

[monghjay2]

what lol no