Do men really like women who act dumb?

[Babygirl_S]

[Rosexøxø]

If they do that girl pretending to be dumb caught that guy on a horny moment.

If they “like” a girl like that it’s only something linked with arousal. It’s not something they’d ever respect or admire.

Cause guys just like women in general. (Hetero guys). like sexually like them. In that format.

If a guy genuinely came to like a dumb girl who was pretending or just didn’t invest in herself, it’d be because she tickled his funny bone (like that one silly goofy looking friend or dog). They make us laugh and they seem different so we fancy them, and ofc look out for them.

OR

she seems innocent in appearance to him, and how she carries herself, and this triggers a protective response in him. Men have no business with dumb.

They either like funny dumb friends, or dumb but naive like innocence, or they just like a sexy dumb thing that triggers their arousal and interest.

But no man wants a partner in crime “ “, or in life to be authentically/genuinely/ dead weight type of dumb. Unless! (I forgot this point) along with the looking out they take a joy in wanting to teach and impart their knowledge on this lady. Like an older brother, father, or mentor does.

But I don't know how many men fall into that category.

I say it’s a 50/50 thing. Will he marry her? Commit to her? Kind of like her? Idk… he could, but it’d be depended on the other things- adorableness, goofiness, potential of teaching them. Etc. NOT the actual being dumb part. The stuff that kind of could go with it. You know? Hope this makes sense and that’s just my take on it. 👍 💯

[Rosexøxø]

I’d say guys WHO GENUINELY LOVE dumb girls want them that way so they can avoid all the chatter and just move them “ “ in the position they like best and show them off MAYBE to others.

As in “just do this babe.”

And “hey everyone look at my gal.”

But you know… that’s a sad sorry sight. I can understand a guy being sexually frustrated, but him only liking a brainless / dead human/lady, is just sad. It shouldn’t be the norm for him to be happy. He should love her type of intelligence and be intelligent enough himself to be intrigued by it- not deterred.

[rachel776]

say what

[ohsheeT]

In relationships there's many many moments in time and each moment means something I love smart women I love Independent women I love women that love themselves that are happy that have a beautiful heart and they're really really wise but I also love a woman who can say something stupid or say something dumb just because of the laugh Factor if somebody acts stupid or dumb I don't really get off on that but if you want to make a joke about something about themselves I think that is hilarious cuz I do that about myself if somebody says something that has two different meetings I'll take it at the different meaning that wasn't meant as they said it but just to be a smart-ass and laugh no stay smart be smart be happy be wise have a beautiful heart and be able to laugh at yourself you have it made

[Lionman95]

In some situations sure because guys feel good when they can help. So a guy feels better when he can do something for you and it works out. But those are occasions meaning that shouldn´t be all the time. There might be some guys that like her acting dumb all the time but I would say most guys don´t want a woman that can´t be left alone as she could do something dumb any second.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

No. They don’t like women who belittle them, publicly mog them, put down their intelligence and become argumentative.

Usually men are the natural leaders of the family, to play against that goes against their instincts. We enjoy teaching you new things and love it when you enjoy our leadership. Let a man teach you something and at least pretend to be grateful for it and he’ll love you like he only had a day left to live

[invictus]

No, but what we really hate is opinionated, know all's.

It would no doubt be the same when woman come across a loud mouth guy.

But a girl that acts dumb, I don't think it's a point either way. If you are loyal, sweet and kind, you can be dumb or smart.

[GlitteringWorld]

Why should she have to play dumb just to get his attention? If he truly loves her, she shouldn’t need to put on an act—she’ll naturally have all his attention, no matter what.

[Rosexøxø]

Valid. 💯

[ManOnFire]

Guys who want to control a woman or want to feel like they're a smart or dominant man love dumb women. But I think it's safe to say that the vast majority of us get annoyed by that shit pretty quickly.

[Nikki1989]

Maybe some do as they think it gives them more of a chance to be controlling.

[BadApple69]

No. I like smart women. I had a dumb girlfriend once… she was an embarrassment.

[Curmudgeon]

Not really. Don't confuse acting dumb with acting uncomplicated.

[Rosexøxø]

I don't know if I read you right but I’d agree with acting dumb can just be complications for a guy. Added and unnecessary. For one guys like to be direct right? And a girl acting dumb who isn’t doing her usual philosophy behind the phrases he said, will just add complication. She will extend the conversation by avoiding contact with what he had managed to say and that could just be frustration (if he lacks patience) if not just time consuming.

Being dumb not acting like your age? Or grasping stuff/ concepts conveyed in today’s time? That makes it seem like a language barrier or talking to a kid. And not everyone is looking for a parent. And not everyone can translate or find compromise with a persist dumb persona 🤷‍♀️

It’d be pretending to be a wall, if anything. 🤷‍♀️

[Berethor]

Men usually don't care as long as the woman is look pretty, many pretty women are dumb.

[V_Injector]

When they're just trying to fuck... yeah. Most normal guys can't stand a dumb chick long term though.

Getting relief sexually and devotion are very separate matters.

[thearchjoker]

Maybe for a one of fling but never as a partner

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

If that's the case, then no one would like me at all. 😜

[MasterKS]

@SeriouslyNotSerious last nail! LOL

[ProbablyClueless]

It can be charming once in a while. But I prefer women who don't act too ditzy.

[NathanDavis]

on purpose? what for...

I do like when they're silly funny sometimes... but not acting or pretending to be dumb

[HighValue]

It isn't acting. The majority actually are, at least in the USA.

[DrPepper12]

I don't and they're not acting...

[John_Cobretti]

That is honestly sexy , we don't have any particular attraction to intelligent or super smart girls

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would never take advantage of a woman no matter what.

[LiamJHayden]

It might be interesting if I see her do it in order to troll someone who is arrogant, but otherwise "No."

[Maybeyoutoo]

Of course not. Everyone loves smart, pious, white women

[Huntingnfishin]

Every man wants to feel important and smart. A dumb girl makes that much more easy

[beefcakebradybatson]

Not dumb, but I like slightly bubbleheaded broads;it goes along with their being brainy AND buxom !!!

[Pohjolan]

By acting stupid she is not only insulting our but her own intelligence as well.

I don't know what they are going after by doing so?

[Xwtxx]

No. I love an intelligent and strong willed woman. Airhead are out.

[nawtee_me]

Nope, I think only a dumb person would want someone dumb as well….

[Xawyx]

No, I prefer intelligent girls, but not nerdy.

[normalice]

There are different types of dumb.

[Summeroflove]

No lol. Sorry especially if it’s a act

[Caroline91]

But that's what makes it fun... That it's an act!

[Summeroflove]

@Caroline91 it’s not fun at all and I can’t stand people who pretend to be somebody that they’re not I almost always can sniff them out.

People play dumb to take advantage of somebody more times then not. Also I want someone whose intellectual enough to have a meaningful relationship. At the end of the day if someone cannot choose their IQ they can choose to be genuine and good.

[Summeroflove]

@Caroline91 and you know what else? Playing dumb will also attract manipulators so those people can make one another’s lives a living hell.

It does piss me off when somebody preys on a good heart. Whether a woman’s doing it to a good dude or a dudes doing it to a woman whose hearts genuinely in the right place but she’s able to be taken advantage of

[Caroline91]

@summeroflove I was largely being facetious, but should have made that more obvious. Although, I do it with people who know me well, as they do with me. I never would with someone who does not know me well. Sorry for giving the wrong impression.

[Summeroflove]

@Caroline91 yeah lol I know I’m just kinda saying. If someone’s playing around it’s fine

[Summeroflove]

@Caroline91 you’re good

[Caroline91]

@summeroflove Good to know! And that's all I really meant was it can be fun to play around, but never seriously. And never something that is seriously manipulative or hurtful to anyone. But I do get where you are coming from and I totally agree. 😊

[Summeroflove]

@Caroline91 oh playing arounds fine as long as you’re not being deceptive. I have a good nose for those kind of people

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Nope. Intelligence is attractive.

[sawno]

No, I'm into intelligent girls.

[MicahRaine]

No it drives us crazy

[BarryLiverstone]

Some boys do. Men don’t

[MasterKS]

so its easy to take them to the bed! LOL

[buzzword]

Nope.

[WhitneySnow]

Sadly some do

[scott04sa22]

Nope

[EnjoytheDay777]

Not this one

[chocolatetwopointo]

no l

[Bklynbadboy12]

Hell no

[Jmmmfi4]

ACT?

[Jpie555]

Nope