Why do women say they prefer intelligent men? Do girls actually prefer bad boys? Does it come with age?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hot men usually already have greater genes. Good genetics. You can see it on their face. The shape of their jaw. Their eyebrows. Usually they have higher testosterone and you can hear it in the depth of their voice. And women specially rather mate with good genes because of pregnancy risk.

I think many guys can become the “BADDBOY”. Many guys can become “HOT”. They just rather sit and chug Cheetos, or not make any muscle whatsoever. They rather use up the XXX online than actually achieve real life women. They rather drink, and smoke, and videogame, and porn. Than actually putting in any work to attract the opposite sex. It’s why Chad always wins. Specially now.

Women today all compete for a select few that are putting in work, or have put in work.

You need to have a “dominance trait” that impresses the female. If not height. Then muscles. But it needs to be one of those. It has to be something that makes you “stand out” from the average.

Women are wired to reject undesirables, weak males, and average mediocre males. You NEED to impress the female. On any species the male has to impress her. Otherwise she’s not aroused. She’s not intrigued.

badboys are “bad” unusually because they get spoiled and become entitled. Due to being hot.

HOT 🟰 SPOILED

hot men get women easy. Like women are Nothing.

Adaeva · Accepted Answer

Girls prefer very good-looking, sexy, hot guys and that is what bad boys are.

Definition of a bad boy: All his life, he was popular, more athletic, and better than 90% of the other boys or guys. Girls have always been easy for him. If he snaps his fingers, they drop their panties. It is easy to find 'em, fuck 'em, leave 'em, and move on to the next pretty thing. Since girls are easy, they are sand, they don't have much value and that is how he treats them. He is not mean, and he doesn't mistreat girls, he just doesn't value them.

Definition of a nice guy: All his life, he has been an average guy. He has never been popular and girls may talk to him until a hot guy comes along. If he happens to get a girlfriend, they quickly dump him for the hot guy. Even though she is his girlfriend, he doesn't get pussy, and while she withholds pussy from him she will give to a hot with very little effort on the hot guy's part. To get a girlfriend, he must invest a lot of time, money, and effort; perhaps years of effort. Therefore, if he does get a girlfriend, she is precious, she is like a diamond and that is how he treats her. Nevertheless, even if married, if she meets a hot guy she may fuck the hot guy and her hubby will never know.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I wager that the average woman is attracted to men who are good looking, smart, honest, ethical, and motivated to succeed. The bad boy traits would include physically active, bold and daring, capable, courageous, indomitable, not mean, violent or criminal.

They want a man who they can admire for his masculinity and who is capable of protecting them. Women want to feel safe and secure, but to also have fun and excitement. And yes, he needs to pleasure her well sexually. That's part of the fun and excitement.

Only a stupid woman would betray a guy like that if he adored and respected her. Only a whore would betray a guy like that just to get more variety of cock.

And no healthy woman has a secret desire to be treated like shit.

It's true that they are less likely to be attracted to a milquetoast with a high IQ and no personality or a guy with low self esteem, a persecution complex, or a grudge against women.

In the end, women like men with masculine qualities just as men like women for their feminine qualities. But within those two sets, there are a wide range of preferences.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For the same reason they say "I'm attracted to his personality". It's vague and they can mold it to mean whatever they want it to mean. It could just as easily mean he has a killer set of abs and the schlong of king kong.😆 women are the ultimate lemmings. They're attracted to whatever is trendy and feels gives them the most "status". Because half of it is their image and the other half is making other b****es jealous. A very small fraction is what actually makes her happy. Because most women are NEVER happy. They're typically always chasing that next high. Till 30 or 40 when the music stops. Then typically they START thinking rationally for the first time. And since this is a new concept to most of them it takes a little while for them to get their bearings. At this point They're only still looking for a badboy if they've learned NOTHING over the past 30 to 40 years. The only real drawback at this point is even if she does figure it out and decide to stop wildin. She learns her options at this point are pretty miniscule.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

The reason I like intelligent guys is because I believe intelligent guys have an easier time fulfilling the role of a husband to you, if you need help with repairs around the house, they know exactly how to fix the problem. You are less likely to get lost when you vacation in a foreign country, if somebody gives you drama at a society or a club your in, they know how to navigate the social issue, and if you are dealing with an unfamiliar topic, they have the research skills to find solution.

VictorMachiavelli · Answer

Nobody wants to be with a dumbass, wanting an intelligent partner is normal.

That doesn’t mean that intelligence comes before or above everything else. It doesn’t mean that they want a complete nerd. They also have to be attracted to the guy based on a bunch of other things, intelligence alone doesn’t turn people on.

In fact if anything, when it comes to attraction, social intelligence is the most important form of intelligence. You meed that to play the dating game well, to act in a way that appeals to women, to make good/fun conversation, to read the woman you’re talking to. A guy can be really intelligent in some ways but if he lacks social intelligence, then he’s going to have a hard time.

SakuraBlossoms87 · Answer

It's simple

Sluts, whores, wannabe prostitutes like bad boys. They are used, abused, and tossed away like yesterday's left over pizza. This relation of whoreish women & "bad boys" is so well known it has been protrayed in movies for decades.
The least achieving women with questionable personality goes for "bad boys". Grease, with John T, is a prime example. The main female character seems "good" at first glance but it quickly becomes obvious that she hardly is a respectable woman. Between not really following instructions, to smoking, to dressing like a street walker.

Women that are potential marriage material - who don't sleep around, raised not in dysfunctional families, have self respect, etc. - don't go with "bad boys".

Such men contribute little to no value in an actual meaningful relationship and so they have about as much appeal as day's old dogshit on the end of a stick.

Madilyn · Answer

It really depends on the girl, but most girls are turned off by “bad boys.” For a serious relationship, we want a man that is responsible and seems like they have their life together. However, the bad boy aesthetic can be pretty attractive, and the attitude is kinda hot too. But it ain’t relationship worthy.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Bad boys might be exciting when you are young, but as soon as you mature, you want someone intelligent in your life.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on the culture. In the U. S., they have to say that so they don't get labeled. That's what Americans are most afraid of... labels. They go for those kinds of guys in "marriage"... because they're not stupid, they KNOW he's the piggy bank with a good job... but watch your ass... because virtually ALL of them are continuing to do what they did before marrying that guy-get their rocks off on the side with at least 1-if not more-guys who are the polar opposite of him. In the Orient and the Arab world, etc... they REALLY DO go for those kind of guys... because being self destructive and full of shit doesn't get you a merit badge in their cultures. It doesn't in Mexico either. Really... the USA is an outlier globally when it comes to relationships... that's why they lead the globe in every negative category concerning them-but a wide margin.

Pegases · Answer

Never trust what a woman says, trust what she does. Reason being is all women have a desire to protect their image. That's why if you ask a woman how many men she's slept with, almost all of them will lie to you. And this is also true to a degree with men. Actions speak louder than words, but especially when it comes to what women like, what they continually choose is what they like, not what they say they like in an effort to be politically correct.

Quigly · Answer

It's total BullSh%t, women like them as dumb as they can be. They are looking for a sucker. The intelligent guy prefers to be single. He can see modern marriage isn't traditional marriage and will more likely just ruin his life.

I've never met a woman that preferred the bad boy. The only women that go out with bad boys have no better choices in life. Usually, they are single mothers looking for a sucker/loser with no better choices himself. So the losers match.

A_Bell · Answer

I don't like bad boys. I don't like passive overly people-pleasing wallflowers either. It's not preferring one over the other, it's not wanting two sides of a bad coin.

Moirine · Answer

All around intelligent man honestly no little touch of bad. No one was made to be perfect but a good man (husband and father) with a pure heart ✨ and smart brains does it for me.

Anemone978 · Answer

Everyone likes a badboy but they ain't relationship material.. We prefer to marry the smart guy making big moves in life and wants to settle down and have a family..

DextroShade · Answer

The guys women claim they want and the guys they actually pick are never the same. They will say they want sensitive, caring guys who are in touch with their emotions and respect women but then they will friend-zone those guys and go fuck the asshole Chad who will slap her, choke her, call her a bitch and a whore, and then cheat on her. Being nice to modern women is a recipe for failure.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

they say they prefer intelligent men because they know you're gonna think low of them if they tell you what they really like.

till then look up Proxy Violence when you get a chance. that is the reason why women love bad boys so much

exitseven · Answer

It sounds a lot better that you prefer an intelligent man with a good skillset and a well paying job than some jerk with bulging biceps but no job who will just end up cheating on you or give you a good beating.

zagor · Answer

Why would you think all women have the same preferences? If that was the case there would be exactly one flavor of ice cream.

BourbonAndBacon · Answer

They don't all like bad boys but the majority would like a guy who's at least a little naughty

sage2021 · Answer

I was always attracted to the combination - an intelligent guy, with a touch of bad boy in him.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Girls only want guys that'll beat the shit out of them. That's why I can't find any.

Masterodd · Answer

Again with the women prefer questions... Women say shit they don't mean and never follow through with what they do say...

shades777 · Answer

how did you come to the conclusion to compare intelligence with swagger?

Anonymous · Answer

I like handsome intelligent guys Example:

jimmy2 · Answer

Bad boys go to prison for verry Long time I work in Prisons for 24 years and a lot of men and women are still there after my 24

Apple1996 · Answer

Yes bad boys are hot 🔥

laraWM · Answer

It looks like you don't know girls 😂

sheenagwapa · Answer

i've alwsys preferred intelligent men

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