A quote I find really captures this is
"There's a difference between loving the idea of someone, and loving the person itself"
Basically if you feel love for the person even when they are down, sick, tired, out of shape, etc... you'll know it's not superficial love of the archetype they represent
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when he challenges you
When we have overall great chemistry.
We are attracted to each other both physically and mentally.
Close values and goals. We stimulate each other. We take comfort in each other.
We have great sexual chemistry together. We are on the same page.
when your happiness means more to him than himself.
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You never know. You take a chance.
When you know, you just know. You feel it! Definitely having the best chemistry, connection and falling in love with a man. Talk to about anything, love him and care for him and more as long he'll be the same for you! I Imagine myself spending the rest of my life with my future man, getting married, and having a family someday!💕ā¤ļø
When he's the opposite of everything you ever had but better. When his weaknesses are your strengths and his strengths are where you are weak. When he has exceeded your standards and loves you for all that you are and are becoming after spending years by your side. When he encourages you to be better.
They say this phenomenon is impossible, but I highly disagree.
Same interests and goal in life
Makes u laugh
Apologizes when necessary
Opens doors for u
Offers to pay
Takes u out
Keeps life exciting
Compliments u everyday bc they expireFor me it was that he was flawed in all the right ways. I didnāt want him to change a bit, I loved him the way he was 100% and totally accepted who he was.
The honest answer is somewhere between knowing yourself, what you want and your honest selfish pursuit of those goals.
Everyone is out to score some grape juice but there are outliers but you only find them if your are one yourself.One thing to consider: are you happy when you are with him. Not *should* you be happy but are you actually happy.
Its not the only thing but its an improtant one
Do you want to wake up next to him for the rest of your life.
When he's being an idiot, but you still see him as Your idiot.
I donāt. Eveytime I think a man is for me, a few months in and I realize it was my perception of him that made me think he was.
You should be comfortable be them.
Able to understand each other.When you have similar or nonconflicting values, morals and goals as well as mutual love.
someone who is patient
If you have to ask then it's not it.
Easy.. he is not a fucking ass
When he does everything for you.
You don't
You just know 😌
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