Is it wrong that I don't get serious with white girls who've been with black guys?

[Anonymous]

I have no issues with having a fling with white girls like that, but I don't see them as girlfriend/wifey material.

I think those white girls have a ftish or are that kind of girl who never knows what she wants. It's okay to be with one of them for some time, but not to commit to her.

[Anonymous]

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[EricSummer]

That limitation makes no sense. It puts an unreasonable focus on race and on her dating history.

Now I guess everyone has heard the stereotype that a woman with a race fetish will stick to her choice ("... they never go back"). However, if she wants to date you she obviously does not have this fetish. So it should be no issue.

[Asker]

"However, if she wants to date you she obviously does not have this fetish."

There's no guarantees that she doesn't have that fetish. I don't trust those types.

[Anonymous]

Thats dumb...

I mean what if she is white and had one long relationship with one man that happened to be black? Why does the color of his skin matter?

Not all black men are Hood rats. A lot are high educational, respectful real men that would make great fathers.

So to answer your question, yes.

[Asker]

It's not about him, I'm not going to date him, but her. A lot of those white girls are too much problematic, I'd rather find another girl.

[Opinion Owner]

Thats a dumb statement. You can't know that unless what their relationship was like.

For example me I was in one relationship with a black man for a year. I only been with him. So my bodycount is 1. I am religious very submissive. I'd happily be a housewife. I never drink alocohol in my life, I never smoked in my life. I have never been to a club in my entire life and I am white.

But its your choice:)

[Asker]

Most white girls who date black guys (who I've seen) were promiscuous and had a race fetish. Maybe that's why I'm prejudiced. 😆

I don't think my standards are that too high, I even dated a latina girl who was a drug dealer (and my family hated that), but dating a girl who might have a race fetish is a no-no.

[Opinion Owner]

you are retarded. you rather date a woman who is a drugdealer than a white woman who has been with a black man.

Bye

[Asker]

See? It's not that my standards are too high... 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO

[Yannishka]

'Funny' is the right word. At least when I read it.
No harm done, whatever you fancy.

[Avicenna]

Who you date or prefer to date is up to you and it's no one else's business. That said, it makes no sense to me that you'd be OK with a fling but nothing more solely on that basis.

[Asker]

Nah, I wouldn't get serious with a girl who thinks my skin color isn't beautiful. That doesn't bother me in a fling, but it would in a committed relationship.

[Finchie40]

Not at all , you just have your own preferences, it doesn’t mean you’re Racist , you just prefer a girl that wasn’t involved with a black guy,

[Kaamraj]

You are allowed to have your preferences. As long as you are not breaking any laws or being overtly racist or sexist, you're fine.

[inhua]

you can choose who you want to get serious with

[Anonymous]

Who cares. You’re allowed to have whatever ridiculous standards you want. Because YOU are the ones dating them. Ignore all the shrews here telling you that you’re somehow wrong for this.

[BlackJeep]

Yes it is. I've got a lot of black friends and they are all good guys. They would all take offence to that. There is nothing wrong with dating outside of your race.

[Asker]

I couldn't care less. It's not about them, it's about her.

[BlackJeep]

Why does the color of someone's ex's skin matter? I have many black friends and I've been to parties with them where I've been the only white guy. I honestly don't see a problem with dating someone who has only dated black guys. It really isn't a big deal like you think it is.

[Asker]

She might have a race fetish. It's sus.

[Anonymous]

How would you even know if she’s been with a black guy before?

[Asker]

Gossip is an unstoppable force. 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Ok I’ve never heard any gossip about someone having been with a black man.

[mommymommymommy]

Yep, since you're literally judging a book by its cover

Racism at its textbook def.

[Asker]

Oh, right. I'm racist against white women... Totally plausible. 😂

[Anonymous]

So what do you do just ask girls as soon as you meet them if they have or not? Seems like that would not make any girl happy.

[Asker]

I ask her friends and people who know her. I don't ask about race but what's the kind of guy she likes and dated.

[Anonymous]

Not wrong at all.

[monghjay2]

what lol