Anonymous(30-35)+1 yBecause many women have been fooled with materialism, feminist extremism, magazines/movies/the media — one lie after another. Yes, it falls on men and guys as well in terms of standards. Many women probably feel a relationship with a man or guy isn’t worth it because of her past which has broken her heart and lost respect and you mix what feminism teaches, yea it doesn’t surprise me.
All it takes is one bad relationship for a woman or girl to say fuck it. But what women don’t understand is look at how much shit men and guys have to deal with — the hot and cold emotions of females, her being courted more by other men/guys which intrigues her more, her friends influencing bad thoughts. Never every guy is a deranged serial killer or rapist.
I’ve known girls who had abortions, cheated, embraced being a slut, two-faced…the list goes on, but even after many many many years I don’t view every female that way. The problem is we live in odd times and a world that lives off greed, so human beings don’t trust each other. This is why I find it extremely odd people have this strange obsession with their dogs.
I’m not talking about loving their pet, I mean WEIRD OBSESSION where they value their pet more then children being killed by Israeli forces with war money given by the United States daily.
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16.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Women outnumber men beginning around age 40, and the ratio favors men more the older they get.
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@nastyb: I'll repeat myself since you have reading comprehension issues- the number of men in the US is less than the number of women beginning around age 40. As a result, we would expect there to be more unmarried older women (however defined).
Now, as to your claims about when marry:
www.statista.com/.../
Median age at FIRST marriage for men is 30.6, meaning half get married prior to that and presumably some men get married for the first time after 40. That means your claim that "most wed in their 30s" isn't quite accurate. Never mind that's not what I was talking about.
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average age to get married is mid 20s to early 30s. this link shows average age of marriage for every state in the US
www.insider.com/when-people-get-married-every-state-2019-1
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+1 yThat might be because newer and newer girls are joining the market and men have a lot more to pick from, they are not even fully familiar with the first shiny girl, already get distracted by the second one.
True love doesn’t exist, it only exists until the next candidate of true love appears.
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+1 yWhen men find "the one" they marry her, when women find "the one", they think maybe there is still something better out there and miss out on valuable guys and end up with dudes who don't want them LOL or at least that is how it has gone for my sisters friends..
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It's true.
I heard a case in which the girl was working in the IT industry. She got a good guy in the first try. But she thought that if she is getting this much good guy in the first try, there are very high chances to get better guys.
Combine this with many delays due to the job.
She kept rejecting guys in the hopes of a better one. Now, I heard last time, she is just short of 45 age and unmarried.
She was around 24 when they started looking for a guy. - +1 y
Haha good one. You should tell this to your comedy club sometime, bestie.
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Sweeping generalizations will never stop being funny.
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u +1 yBecause men have a shorter life expectancy.
30 Reply 547 opinions shared on Dating topic. Personally, because I never found the one that was right for me until I turned 40 (that year).
Sure I had other relationships, but deep down none of them were marriage material. The first one, for him I wasn't enough, physically. In order to become the woman he wanted, I would have had to fork out for plastic surgery. The second, as I found out later, deep down we didn't share the same values and end goals.
I do not feel any less of a person because im unmarried in my mid 40s. Sure society looks down on it and me, but idgaf. I'm looking after me, and my well being and that's all matters.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yI know I'm going to catch hate for this but you asked the question so I'll give you an honest answer. Youth is attractive. A good woman does NOT lose value. But most women are not very good women. When a woman starts losing her looks and she wasn't a good person to begin with. She loses the only marketable asset she had going for her. Couple this with the fact that as men age they get tired of drama and games. So if this aged woman makes his life too hard he just wants her to go away.
These women can be marketable (albeit they're going to have an uphill battle at this point). But they have to be willing to change thier attitude and most won't most will never accept that they are the problem. So, they'll continue how they are.
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+1 yThe women learned.
Also, it does help that on average, women live 7 years longer than men. Not counting for things like war or crime, either. Just biologically, all things being equal, women live longer than men.
And, y'know, when your pocket misogynist dies, it improves your health.10 Reply
+1 ybecause men care more about bodies than women, guys dont go for whores but women go for players so even the manwhores can get women meanwhile the women that lived a wreckless lifestyle and slept around or "aren't relationship material" will age, this is an assumption created from my personal observations of course
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yBecause all men are PEDOPHILE PREDATORS.
Look at all mens responses here:
Are most men secretly PEDOS because they search for teen in XXX?
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+1 yBecause a man's value increases as he gets older, a woman's decreases. So as he ages, he has more women to pick from. I've lost count of not only the famous guys we all know that are married to younger women... but the amount of older guys I see daily out in public with younger women. As he ages, he has more of what women seek.
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+1 yBecause... time is on MY side :D
But then: in a century where faggots and other sexually irritated persons can get ''married'' ... the entire topic becomes -errmm- redundant?
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@Billlewis Thank you, comrade
308 opinions shared on Dating topic. Older women had higher expectations so they are still unmarried. They should have married when they were young, attractive and energetic. They might have met imperfect guys when they were dating but they should have chosen 1 imperfect guy to start a family with.
00 ReplyMaybe Patrice O'Neal was right with the whole "men know how to get women, but women don't know how to keep men" thing. :D
That and some men just aren't loyal. But probably more the former.10 Reply
+1 yBecause there are more older women than older men, regardless of marital status. By the time you hit 80, it's something like six-to-one in favor of women.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yTwo reasons--women LIVE longer than men on average (by a good 8 years or so) so there are just more old women around. And most couples tend to involve the dude older than the woman so there will be even MORE old women than men without a partner.
00 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. for the same reason there are more unmarried younger men
older men and younger women are pairing up together leaving the other demographics single
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+1 yCause men die younger than women. Just a biological fact.
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+1 yThe main reason is that women live longer than men.
Some men might tell you that women would die young too if they had to live with themselves!
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I had a great aunt who was married 5 times. All 5 of her husbands died before she did. We used to call her the widowmaker! (kids are so mean 🤣)
2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Probably because women generally have higher standards than men.
00 Reply366 opinions shared on Dating topic. My first thought is that generally speaking, men die at a younger age than women.
00 Reply2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Because women always think they can get better, they leave what they have and look for something above, but then they end up not finding anyone.
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+1 y- Men die earlier
- More women than men
- Women get tired of men's BS
00 Reply 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I suppose guys tend to die earlier so it could be so.
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+1 yBecause men love simplicity and women are complicated
00 ReplyBecause Men don't have a problem marrying young girls. That's the only explanation that can make sense.
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+1 ySome women are just never happy or satisfied with their options.
00 ReplyFor the exact reason why there are more married young women than young men
00 Reply2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. There are fewer unmarried older men, or they are dating 20 year olds.
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+1 yBecause they seek careers which make them workaholics. Or they just don't trust men which am assuming 🤔
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+1 yThere’s more females than males? I don't know but my friends r always having more kids and they don’t abort the ones that are boys.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yMost men can't go the distance, or they cheat, and the women end up alone.
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+1 y1. Men on average die younger.
2. A lot of older men go after younger women.00 Reply - 488 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 y1 There are slightly more women than men.
2 Men often marry younger women than otherwise.00 Reply - 431 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yi guess it is because women live longer than men
00 Reply Well men are going after young women for one thing and I think young women want mature and financially stable men
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yBecause women who wait until after 30 have a much harder time finding a mate than men their age do.
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Opinion Owner+1 y@Sasha0426 No you don't. I've read enough of your posts here to know that's not true. Hang in there and keep trying. You'll find a good man.
Opinion Owner+1 y@Sasha0426 Sure
Opinion Owner+1 y@Sasha0426 Sure.
Opinion Owner+1 y@Sasha0426 No, as I said, you post a lot of things that make it clear you wish you could find a man.
Opinion Owner+1 y@Sasha0426 You don't need to prove anything to me.
Opinion Owner+1 y@Sasha0426 Do whatever you want. I would just like to see you happy.
I'm done here.
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+1 yThey always knew how to live without a partner. Each partner increased their life a bit more.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yBecause they nag the men to an early grave.
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+1 yMen have a higher death rate on average.
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u +1 yFeminism!
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+1 ythere are? I didn't notice this...
00 Reply 340 opinions shared on Dating topic. why would you believe that?
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+1 yWomen have guts, men don't.
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+1 yOlder women are less physically attractive.
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+1 yGuys die younger overall
00 Reply 15K opinions shared on Dating topic. Value decreases with age
00 Reply5.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Men die sooner - often from overwork.
00 Reply13.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Women live longer.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yBecause men usually die earlier
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yYess
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