How do you ask a guy if he’s dating other women?

[Anonymous]

There is a guy I have been going out with. I like him a lot and I don’t want him to see other women. I’m prepared to end it when he says he is dating other women.

How do I ask the question but also assure him that I won’t pressure him to stop. Instead I’ll walk away and leave him alone

[Anonymous]

That IS pressuring him to stop.

“Are you dating other people too?”

Yes.

“Sorry, bye bye buddy.”

Wha—why?

“I don’t date people who are dating other people also.”

Oh... I didn’t know you felt that strongly about it. I mean I like you and enjoy our time together. We haven’t seen each other that long. Do you want me not to date other people... and ONLY date you?

“Nah. I don’t want to “pressure you.” Bye.”

Huh? Uh... okay. I guess... Well, it was nice knowing you. Have a good life I guess. 🤷‍♂️

That’s how it’s going to go. But it’s okay. You’re not pressuring him into anything.

[Asker]

I don’t think he should choose me over other women. If he’s dating around, he can do as he pleases. And if that’s the case, he won’t care if I’m around.

[Honest-Matt]

Considering your age is 30-35 you should already be familiar with dating exclusivity. We're not young anymore, we don't have these weird rules or emotions. We date casually, maturely and communicate our feelings and intentions. Just have a talk with him and work towards the idea of being exclusive. Blurting it out might sound like a confrontation but just ease into the suggestion.

[Anonymous]

Ask if he’s dating. 🤷🏻‍♀️ If he says something like “I don’t have time to date” or something that signals “no”.

He might be looking for a relationship. If he just says yes. Then he’s no looking for relationship

[Jazzy54]

Let him know you want to be exclusive. Depending on his response, you’ll know what to do.

[In_Trance]

You say something like "Are you dating other women?"

[Anonymous]

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[KrakenAttackin]

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