Is it pyscho if I ask if he’s seeing other women?

[Anonymous]

I’m seeing this guy it’s been 2 months. He always gets really possessive over me and says he thinks I’m speaking to other guys which I’m not. But I always think people act like this when they have something to hide. I think people project things he always tells me I should only be speaking to him. Last night he posted a story and I heard a girl speaking in the back. I’m really trying hard not to freak out right now. Is it too sooon for me to ask if he’s seeing others considering he’s making sure I’m not. I’ve been a sidechick for a year before without knowing simply because I didn’t ever ask questions. Is it too soon to ask this would it push him away?

[HighValue]

Just tell him you want to make sure that you are both exclusive to each other. It is totally reasonable. That would only push away someone that was promiscuous/seeing others anyways, which you wouldn't want that kind of partner. It is better to bring it up now to be sure and not waste your time.

Being open and honest is very important to have a successful long term relationship.

[Anonymous]

you must obviously love being treated like a side piece otherwise you wouldn't be putting yourself in this situation again. if you had any brains which clearly you don't you would of broke it off a long time ago