Is this pyscho of me to message a woman asking if they’re sleeping with one another?

[athenarosexxx]

Im dating this guy and currently pregnant with his child. I have my suspicions on this woman where he’s liked ALL of her photos, I’ve seen her on his phone and they follow each other on every social media. He is telling me he’s not sleeping with anyone else, it’s not just me being bitter but I have a gut feeling he is and I don’t want any STDS. I’ve asked him if he’s seeing her and he has said no. Is it pyscho for me to message and ask or does this give him a feeling of being trapped.

[RavVid]

An hour later I found stuff was missing.

I like to say usually things seem odd because they are. Maybe your guy had a different soap smell on him that your conscious mind didn't pick up but your unconscious mind did.

So what I suggest is don't set about destroying this relationship and recognize that pregnancy might cause insecurity feelings. Reset everything to zero but be mindful of future red flags popping up and think about what is happening around that red flag. Maybe his penis smells like a girl or he unusually has a shower after work.

You will never get a guilty plea. It is a matter of you convicting him in your own mind and it will take you time to accumulate the "odd" things to do so.

[SnowedIn]

Not psycho but don't do it. You risk alienating the guy and accusations (true or not) of stalking the girl. Let it go.

[Anonymous]

don't message, i mean it's definitely kind of a red flag that he's liked all her photos but it doesn't necessarily mean cheating - how do you know they follow each other and he likes all her pics by the way?
either way, if he is cheating get you and your unborn kid out of there

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, he is wrong to cheat on you. Tell him you want to have more open communication

[slatyb]

Yes, it is. If you have a question, ask your boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

I don't know about psycho, but it's funny. Because if she is it's like she's going to tell you "yes".

[Iron_Man]

You do what you have to do