Am I wrong to be bothered by my man chatting with many women on socials including ones he slept with?

[Anonymous]

So we are dating for 7 months and I am very bothered by the fact that he is still texting other women that are not his friends but some girls he just knows. I don't understand the motive to keep them around if in a relationship.

He is convincing me it's innocent and that it's not flirting and it's just exchanging a few texts now and then but I still don't see the point and it's making me uncomfortable. I am wrong to feel that way?

[WonderBell99]

Dump him. If it is making you uncomfortable and he has repeatedly brushed off your concerns, he is not the right fit for you.

If your partner tells you that something you do makes them uncomfortable, you stop doing it... but when your partner has no respect for you, that relationship is close to dead. No use trying to prolong the inevitable.

[cupid101]

If you are insecure in the relationship then it is not for you. He is in the wrong here.. its disrespectful. I would walk away if it was me

[spartan55]

No, you are not wrong and he is gaslighting you saying it's okay. Wise up, your man is a snake, believe it.

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

Wouldn't this just then prove that guys and girls really can't be "just friends"?

[kylee2437]

Ehhh dump him honestly. We all know he would probably lose his shit if he saw you messaging other men

[In_Trance]

you're wrong for putting up with it