Is it okay for married man to chat to girls online?

Question

Like this app due example. Is that cheating?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't consider it okay, personally, I think its disrespectful. I want my wife to be my best friend where I turn to her, send her memes or stupid/funny vids or talking about political matters or watching the game together. I shouldn't have to seek validation or trying to befriend other women online. It's a slippery slope. All it takes is for a relationship to go sour with one argument. As human beings, if something is instant to us for satisfaction or gratification we may pursue it. What might seem innocent where a couple fights, a guy is angry at his wife, doesn't talk to his wife and want to work on the problem and say, "I fk'd up, I'm sorry I acted that way". If a guy or man thinks to himself and says, "she (his wife) is being a complete *bleep*", let me message Jessica on IG with, "hey, how's your day going", she responds with "its going good and you", he responds with "not great, my wife is annoying me". Something like that can progress to daily talks, no communication amongst husband and wife. If the conversation is about a political matter or something, that's ok. Beyond that, nah, not cool.

LiamJHayden · Accepted Answer

On this app? This is not a dating app, so unless it crosses the line, no.

Finchie40 · Answer

It’s ok to talk to anyone , as long as you aren’t trying to betray your partner and do something that would hurt your partners’s feelings , Now if that’s something you want to do , that’s up to you. What people need to realize , especially in a marriage , You are choosing your partner , the same way you want them to choose you , You should be trusting your partner, the same way you want them to trust you , If you can’t do that for your partner? don’t expect your partner to do that for you, Always remember , whatever is not ok for your partner to do to you , needs to go the same way for you as well , Not one sided , We can’t force someone to love us , and stay by us , All we can do , is treat them the same way we want to be treated in return , if they choose to walk away? let them go , because they are not choosing you , the same way you are choosing them. Yes it hurts to lose someone we love and gave our heart to , but it hurts worse , staying with someone that doesn’t love you the same way you love them. Don’t ever chase someone to be with you , if they truly loved you, they wouldn’t be running. Value yourself worth and realize you deserve better than that

Paris13 · Answer

Cheating and Your Partner Being Cheated and The Other Girls Because you are Taken. xxoo

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Does your spouse know about it? Can she read the chats? Does she participate?

petitedollbabee · Answer

Casually talking to someone who happens to be female, in the same way that you would talk to a male, non sexually or romantically, is not cheating. Actively going out of your way to sexualise conversations with women, engaging in sexually natured conversations with women such as sexting, etc, would be cheating yes.

smne35 · Answer

You can chat with who ever you choose if they want to chat back with you, and really it's not who you chat with, it's what your chatting about, what is your reason or motive, I mean let's face it I don't give a damn if your male or female, when talking with opposite sex the thought enters your mind about sex even if it's for a split second, so if your chatting with a woman and your married, why are you, be honest with yourself, men only have female friends not cause hey pal good buddy let's get drunk, no it's because at some point they will want to try to have sex with them, unless your gay and really do have an interest in her make up, it's the tone of the conversation where the line of cheating blures and once cleared you either are or not a cheater depends on what side of the line you find yourself

Raaj4you · Answer

No, it's not cheating if it's work / office related chat with your female colleagues. When you are single you can do whatever you want, casual dating, flirting, sexting, hookups, mastrubation, etc. But when you are in a serious relationship then you should avoid doing all those things like a gentleman. Why do you need other girls when you already got a hot girlfriend/ wife? If you are not happy in your current relationship, then communicate openly with your partner and have lots of sex so that you don't have thoughts of other hot girls. If you are not happy then breakup with her instead of cheating her.

Dargil · Answer

I qualify and I have been here since GAG opened up. I come here to talk about sex, politics and religion in a respectful and dignified manner and maintain no ongoing relationships with anyone. I can't tell whether Person X is actually male or female and nothing I do here can be squinted out to be "flirting". There are some females here who truly sound female and I enjoy a little banter with them, but it is no different from the cashier at the Kroger Store in front of my wife. I think this is acceptable but other things might not be.

Nikki1989 · Answer

If you can't talk to the opposite gender while in a relationship, your relationship is doomed.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I know a guy who used to talk to women online very often, back in the days when the internet was still fairly new. His wife knew about it and she didn't mind. He was an avid bicyclist and even met with women for bicycling. His wife was fine with it as long as it was all upfront. They have a good marriage and you still see them holding hands, which is cool for a couple of their age.

JacobJordan · Answer

Wife response: my husband and I both are on here via the same account and we both talk to people of the same and of the opposite gender. Many of these questions benefit from the duality of both perspectives and some questions benefit from only one. For it to be cheating their would need to be flirting, excess compliments etc

HelpfulWoman · Answer

context matters.
nudes/mental cheating is obviously cheating.
very casual conversation wouldn't be to me.
But also you need to ask your partner and have boundaries made wellll before you feel you need to ask this.

NathanDavis · Answer

talking with people by itself, it is not cheating

Reem12345reem · Answer

i guess it's okay , but if u become attached or become sad or very happy when u talk with them then it's considered cheating bc receiving a text from them affects your mood

Thestupidusername · Answer

if you can't show her then something is wrong

Monalisa77 · Answer

If thats the case then every person is cheating if they talk to the opposite gender evem irl

Joshydavid25 · Answer

TBH, I personally would be very hesitant to talk to any woman online I didn't already know if I were in a relationship.. It's not cheating if the context isn't flirty in the least.. But be careful..

sheikalana · Answer

Not okay. If you have a wife at home why don't you talk to her?

4ngelic · Answer

platonically no sexting, flirty convos, yea

Altheavas · Answer

Context matter, if you have to hide it then you know what’s you’re doing wrong!

IslaTheWitch · Answer

It depends, how you and your partner set it up. If you agreed not to chat with opposite gender, than it's at least breaking the agreement.

Titanic1912 · Answer

It depends on how serious the conversation gets. If I’m a married man, the only women I’d talk to would me my mom, my sister, my mother in law, sister in law and some of her friends.

molonski2 · Answer

Talking to them certainly no.. Having outlandish Sex at their house , or a video lap dance from OS -- MAYBE.

Sparkie460 · Answer

There's nothing wrong with talking to the opposite sex on line or in person.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

No, men and woman cannot have friendships without it becoming sexual. You should have no other need to have a friendship with a woman because your wife should be your friend.

Anonymous · Answer

If its a conversation you try to hide from your partner, then no its not okay.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Depends what they chat about and the wife gotta be aware of it.

jahaims · Answer

How do you not know what cheating is by 45. If you won't do it in front of your spouse then it is cheating.

In_Trance · Answer

That depends on what they're chatting about and also depends on whether their spouse knows about it or not

dudeinohio · Answer

Yes, as long as there is no emotional. or sexual feelings or discussions.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Perfectly okay. If a married guy has time to cruise the web, it means his wife isn't doing her job.

Anonymous · Answer

Boy I hope not, because I do that here a LOT!

sawno · Answer

Does your partner know about it?

sage2021 · Answer

Nope, nope, and nope!

MikeTheBartender · Answer

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exitseven · Answer

Are they texting about sex or about lawncare?

Anonymous · Answer

If I was his wife. I would mind

BLP11520 · Answer

Yes it is ok

alexiah · Answer

It’s never okay.

butterly248 · Answer

Uh, no

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