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I heard the only reason a man will date us bisexuals is if we bring over hot lady friends šā
I have dated a bisexual girl that was upfront about her sexuality and that she occasionally fooled around with her girlfriend and of course i asked like any typical man would ask , is if she wanted to include her girlfriend in 3somes with us? , she said she would like her girlfriend to join us at times but she didnāt want me fucking her girlfriend she just told me the things that she would of approve of , I understood where she was coming from and what she was saying and I was ok with it , Things were great in the beginning , I felt like the luckiest man on the planet but after some time it turned into a complete disaster , because her girlfriend pretty much started causing a lot of drama and started making up lies between my girlfriend and I , I wasnāt really sure what her intentions were but something was definitely off , so it got out of hand, , to make a long story short , her girlfriend showed up at my place while my girlfriend was at work wanting to have sex with me , I told her I was told not to , and she said No itās cool that she talked to her about it , so for whatever reason, I believed her and went along with it , cuz I didnāt think she was that type of person , but I fucked up , so I ended up having sex with her , after we had sex she handed me a letter and told me to read it after she left , So I read the letter and it said that she is in love with my girlfriend and that she no longer wants me to be with her , basically saying she wants her all to herself , she told Me the truth in the letter as to why she had sex with me , to basically get my girlfriend to be upset with me and leave me , the crazy bitch plotted this and all hell broke loose, My girlfriend broke up with me and would not listen to anything I said, I do blame myself for falling into this trap but Right then and there I realized to never add a 3 rd. wheel in a relationship ever again cuz nonsense like this can easily happen when you involve someone else period. So for me to ever consider dating a bisexual girl she would have to prove she isnāt going to fool around with anyone else , I will only have 3somes with girls that I have no strings attached to but when it comes to committed relationships , I will not accept a 3 rd wheel period , if she ends up hooking up with a girl to me she is cheating period
No problem that she happens to also be attracted to women. Whatever level of exclusivity we agree to in our relationship applies to either women or men.
Besides we can compare our opinions on what other women are hot
As long as you don't dream of threesome because bi is your fetish, sure
Dreaming and asking are different things
u Sure, I have a few times. A lot of people seem to have a misconception of what bisexual means. Whether someone cheats or not isnāt determined by their sexuality, itās just determined by whether theyāre a shitty person or not. I know many heterosexual people who cheat.
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Its why I never even tell them for a while. Because it's just an automatic assumption that you're down for threesomes.
Like no, I also just want a partner (singular).
Right? That's biphobia, worse than that!
Straight men being selfish šš as usual
šš Yes
Welcome back! I haven't seen you for a while!
I don't care if a woman is bi, as long as she likes men, too!
@Guardian45 that's what bisexual means, dear.
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u I dated and then married a woman who was bisexual but promised me monogamy. Within 1½ years, she cheated on me with another woman. A few months later, we were divorced.
When she wanted a man, I could satisfy her. When she wanted a woman, I was meaningless.
No, I would never again date a bisexual woman. (And I am now engaged to a very wonderful heterosexual woman who is very faithful.)
Being a cheater is her individual fault, not her sexuality hahaha
Hahaha? Your sense of humor is underwhelming! I MARRIED her and she CHEATED and then we DIVORCED! And you laugh? Are you capable of empathy at all?
How is that relevant to the question?
I can show you the statistics that say straight men cheat. But would it be related to the gender or sexuality? No, they're just shitty people on the globe.
So, the answer to my question is "no, you have NO capacity for empathy."
Empathy for what? Making a sweeping generalization on sexualities because you got cheated?
ABSOLUTELY no empathy! End of conversation.
As a bisexual woman, I apologise on her behalf.
I don't think it was an apology he was looking for. It's the fact he expressed a traumatic emotional experience that shaped his view point, and you immediately disregarded it and laughed. I disagree with him for making a sweeping generalization, but that doesn't mean I can't feel bad for the circumstances that led to him feeling that way. I hope that he can get over the mountains that his ex-wife made for him and eventually let go of that kind of bias.
@GreatBigCircles ok.
Is that even possible? Monogamous means committed to only one person. Bisexual requires an involvement with at least two.
If the woman is faithful to the y guy, I guess it might be okay if she occasionally brings a girlfriend into the relationship.
Bisexual means attracted to both genders but not necessarily at the same time. Y'all have weird definitions.
Bisexual means youāre not only attracted to one gender like male or female. It doesnāt mean you date more than one person at a time. Thatās a really strange definition.
@petitedollbabee these people really have never Googled the word, just heard from friends lmao.
Bisexual isn't Bigamy.
A straight woman isn't inherently going to have sex with every man she meets. A bisexual woman isn't inherently going to have sex with every man and woman she meets.
Do you think there's a two lights in the brain of a bisexual labeled 'MALE PARTNER' and 'FEMALE PARTNER', that drives them to madness unless they're both lit?
Where did this weird idea even come from? It has the same feel as people who say that men are all trash and only want one thing and can't be faithful.
Once I did, though she told me only about half a year into the relationship that she was sexually attracted by some women as well. This did not have any adverse impact on our relationship and when we eventually broke up it was for different reasons.
She noticed only very beautiful girls of a certain very feminine type. She would even tell me about that, for example at a party. I always made sure not to be too enthusiastic about how pretty they were when sharing in her talk.
By the way, we were both completely faithful throughout.
I'm not really upset about it if she's only interested in one human at a time.
However I'm poly myself...
So I'd prefer a partner willing to share *me*.
That said, being mono isn't a *complete* no go for me, just not a strong preference.
A amazing girl is a amazing girl.
That I can understand
My wife is a big women especially when she is pregnant and her hormones just drive her crazy.
Don't mind it much like being with a guy friend at times!
During these pregnant times we are an open couple and we have both guys and girls over for amazing sex! She looks so hot between two guys or with a woman right between her legs moaning as I play with and pleasure her chest and neck!
We are always open to new partners 😉. This is not cheating we both are okay with this!
Shoot us a like or comment if you wanna join in on the sexy fun!
It not different for heteros cheating. I date a bisexuals it she just want to date me. men also think that there going get a 3 way cause it hot to them and that what they think about when they think about bisexual or lesbian women. women think if they are dating a bi man they have look out for cheathing with both men and women.
anyway it better than the last women I was with cause she was with a lot of men and I was ok with it other than the fact that she mad me sick not super sick bit sick we had a friends with benefits but the benefits not worth it. also I want a relationship. also I mess up cause of self sabotaging. But it would not last long any way cause I did want give her her benefits. But she with lost of guys maybe 3 a day at lease 3 that I know of.
so haveing a Monogamous Bisexual Woman would be good. there a guy on youtube his girlfriend is a Bisexual Woman. he seam happy and he make video about video game and is also an engineering
It's be nice to not be perceived as potential cheater or a slut for a change. Thanks.
you welcome.
I would, but I'm a non-monogamous bisexual femme.
I won't date cishet men as a bisexual, though. That's just self-preservation.
I dated a cishet man when I was out as bi and goddamn that was disgusting and exhausting. He needed a sex therapist and a permastreaming porn site, not a girlfriend.
I did for a while, but got a little tired of the relationship between her and her lesbian friend. Something was definitely going on.
That and she was just an annoying person over all. Not much of the break up had to do with her being bi to be honest. I didn't care much about that.
I will say the problem with a lot of bi girls is they think it's ok to gloat over other girls, because they know we like them too. But it's not. No one wants their partner gloating over anyone but them
Yes you're right
Yes I would.
I think the reason that people have that association as you made in the update is with a person being bi. There is a larger population of people they may cheat with. However your right it's the person that's the problem when it comes to cheating not the person's sexuality.
I was wonderinf if I could maybe ask a question of you asker?
Shoot
Well you mentioned your bi yourself. And well after reading the opinions I was wondering how you'd want a male partner to react when telling them your bi. As the ones in the comments here aren't appropriate but also well it doesn't seem like one of those things that you just say "ok cool" to. If that makes sense.
I'd want them to accept me instead of seeing me as fetish
I'd want to be treated normally
I can understand that, I was just curious as I think I'm likely to say just ok cool. And I don't know just doesn't feel quite right but im not greta with words.
A lot more women in my experience are bisexual then men. On top of that if given a choice between a man and a woman in long term partnership most women would choose men because they can get very little value from other women. So it would not put me off as long as she's monogamous.
Lot of stereotyping
It's dehumanize to stereotype. Imagine if I say my ex boyfriend cheated so all men are dogs, would you accept it? Exactly
It is not an issue to be dating a monogamous bisexual woman/person. Just because someone is bisexual does not mean they are into group play. You can still be attracted to men and women. It's not like they are making out with everyone they like. Married people can be bisexual. Everyone is welcome to like who they like. I want to be dedicated to the person I'm with. There is no reason to cheat on your partner.
No, I wouldn't date a woman who was bi, honestly. Because if she is attracted to both genders, I feel that despite monogamy promises, she will be tempted or approach me later about wanting to explore her sexuality more with the opposite sex which I am not about.
I would not because I believe that bisexual means you cannot be satisfied with just one person and must have sex with both sexes.
"I heard the only reason a man will date us bisexuals is if we bring over hot lady friends "
Probably a lot of truth in that. 😉
It means you can have be attracted to both genders... But not at the same time š¤Ø
i donāt like girls, but. ugh, people are shitty to bisexual people sometimes. anyone worth your time would date you for you.
Thank you!
Hope Thou art not! Bisexuals are humans as well!
The worst part is they have to deal with hate from heterosexual people and homosexual people. It sucks they're stuck as a victim of the 'with us or against us' mentality that seems to be popping up everywhere.
@GreatBigCircles exactly
So by monogamous you mean she's only having sex with one guy and one girl at a time - not in a threesome, just individually. Correct? The problem is - who else is the other girl having sex with? Is she also in a similar relationship? If so, you're bringing in more people, more risk. If the three of us were having sex only with one another, then I wouldn't have a problem with it, even if I weren't involved in their activities.
No, I mean if she's dating you, she's dated girls and boys. And she'd go to the pride parade, that's all.
I as bi am not down for group sex
I don't care if she goes to the Pride Parade, that's irrelevant. Who she's dated in the past is also irrelevant to me.
That's good š
I think so !!
I know some cases of friends being cheated by their girlfriends who were bisexual with other girls so no. I would never have that kind of relationship with a bi, I just can't trust...
I have known 8 bi woman in my life and 5 of them cheated. And only one be man and also cheated...
I dont want to have that kind of relationship with people with that tendency even if it has not relation between being bi and cheater. But like I say this is my experience with this sexual orientation...
If a person wants to cheat, they'll find a way. LoL.
There's no "bi has bigger playground to cheat", well bi girls don't really think as pathetically as most of y'all straight men, but ok.
It's just emojis. Don't get too excited.
There's none. In every community, there's cheaters. It's dumb to think the community is bad for that reason.
I said in my opinion that there is no relation between being bi and being a cheater but from what I experienced I prefer not to have a relationship with someone bi. Maybe in the future my mind will change but nowadays I dont think I would feel that sparkle due to that lack of trust... That said im really sorry if I was mean. I just wanted to tell my experience.
All right
u my ex-girlfriend is bisexual, and you're correct... cheating has no correlation with being bisexual nor promiscuous
cheaters are going to cheat... regardless of what they're into
Possibly, not sure if it would ever turn into a serious relationship, but one never knows.
It beats eating dinner alone, or going to the moves alone, things like that, but there would have to be some common interests between us, otherwise what is the point.
If that person was monogamous, no. That means they're committed to another. The bisexual is irrelevant.
No. I've dated two bisexual women (I didn't know either was bisexual when we started dating), and both cheated on me with other women. And both justified their cheating by saying it wasn't actually cheating because it wasn't with a man.
I will never knowingly date another bisexual woman because I won't date anyone whose sexual needs I as a man cannot satisfy entirely myself.
That's so dumb
Which part?
The way she justified her cheating
OK, yeah I agree.
But I disagree with you about bisexuality not being correlated with cheating. Not all bisexuals are cheaters, but I think there is more motivation for them to cheat because whatever the sex of their partner they will always be attracted to members of the other sex, and their partner has no ability to satisfy that need.
Cheaters don't fuck around because of temptation lmao
They do it because they're either dissatisfied with their relationship and too chicken to break up,
Or they have no moral compass to guide their ass.
Many do, actually. But more commonly, they cheat because they are dissatisfied in heir relationship. Their needs are not being adequately met, which takes me back to the point I made in my last post.
I politely disagree.
In the modern world, there's going to be temptation at every turn. So, that doesn't mean you throw loyalty out of the window and use your sexuality as an excuse. Lmfao.
I'm not talking about temptation, I'm talking about one partner's ability to satisfy the other's needs. I have too much personal experience and am aware of too many experiences of others to believe there is no correlation between bisexuality and cheating. There will always be unmet needs in a "monogamous" relationship, and it's a recipe for higher likely hood of the bisexual partner to cheat. As I said, not all bisexuals cheat, but everything I've experienced and seen suggest they are more likely to.
So they should just have the guts to break up and get a polyamorous relationship. Period.
It's as stupid as "I studied all night but I still copied off my seatmate because they are topper what's an innocent person gotta do :( "
I agree, they should. But unfortunately people don't always do as they should.
Obviously none of this is your fault, and it's too bad you have to deal with the results of other people's bad behavior. But people want to protect themselves.
Yes, bi girls are such monsters š
I never said that.
No, Iāve had horrible experiences with them. They were all cheaters, and unwilling to make me happy when I would always do everything for them. F bi women (Iām sorry, but for real).
Probablyā¦but Iād prefer straight. I think bisexual people are just really overly sexual and are more likely to cheat. I have no desire to have a 3someā¦like none at all, so the one major turn on for most men is not even there for me.
And I donāt like the idea that Iām not enough to satisfy her. If she is attracted to both genders she will probs want to explore that side of her once in a while no?
Even if it was a possibility (monogomous meaning committed to one) No, I wouldn't.
That's... Um ok
I am not interested in dating but 10 years ago I would have had no problem dating a bisexual woman, monogamous or not.
Yes, but I'd rather date a non monogamous woman:)
As long as I'm the only one they look at whilst we're together sure. No different to any other relationship
I wouldn't care too much, most women I know are bisexual.
Wow send them my way
I would, and she wouldn't have to be monogamous or include me in a threesome.
I'm bisexual too. I have no issues dating a bi woman.
Personally I wouldnāt again. From past experiences, it adds a lot to drama.
I guess that is a girlfriend with benefits! The way I have heard experiences is that the guy can feel left out.
Possibly another fantasy that is better in the mind than reality.
That's like asking if you'd hire an honest thief.
You don't know what monogamous or bisexual means, do you, kiddo?
Yes I do
Monogamous means prefering one partner for relationship and bisexual means it can be either, meaning a girlfriend or a boyfriend.
I am a bisexual man, so yeah of course. Assuming itās the kind of person and relationship I was looking for.
I would date such a woman; without the expectation of a threesome. I would just hope for one. Though I am into structured polyamory. Where you get into a relationship with one person then the two of you decide on a third together. Then the three of you decide on a fourth; and so on.
All I want to say is I think there is no such thing as a 100% straight woman. Theyāre all bisexual or lesbians. Attractive women are just too attractive. Iāve even seen women admit this saying āIām straight but Iād have sex with ________ (a woman).ā That means youāre not straight!
We're all bi. Men are just afraid to get
.. yk.
Yeah course! It's literally no different to dating a straight monogamous woman right?
Yeah.
I mean, if she'd bring over hot women that'd be even better. And it wouldn't' be cheating if we did the hot girl together and both knew about it. It would actually be something that could add to our sex life.
That's bigamy not bisexual šā
Get help
I don't think it's bigamy if I'm not planning on marrying multiple people.
Point taken.
Bisexuals still can be monogamous and not okay with threesome.
Your assumptions are harmful to us.
If she's not okay with a threesome that's cool--I'm just saying it'd be more fun if she was.
All right
As a pansexual, certainly! I aināt a hypocrite, like many are.
Absolutely! That's the only kind I would date haha.
m Donāt see any reason why not to.
You probably don't think the way an average straight man does
Lol, probably not.
No wonder most of my crushes have been women.
And straight guys think that's "unfair ' lol ok.
Right? It would be almost funny if it werenāt so sad. Itās like dudeā¦ lashing out at girls for not finding you attractive is exactly why nobody wants to date you.
It's almost always their own damn fault
Women would and have gone for average and short guys ā it's the personality that acts as a woman repellent
Last guy I dated was shorter than me, but actually really hot.
Height is a significant factor, but it's definitely not as significant as guys imagine. A funny guy is hotter tome than a tall guy. Shrugs.
Attractiveness really depends on facial harmony and such.
No.
I would not have dated someone bisexual.
Straight only. I you are sexually attracted to women than we are not compatible.
Probably not since bisexuality and monogamy are mutually exclusive, from what I've seen
They're different
if she's monogamous, then what exactly does bisexuality matter?
She can have a girlfriend, or a boyfriend, or an SO. Why wouldn't it matter?
well i'm dating her. so if she decides to be with me, the fact that she also "would go for girls in theory" doesn't matter, does it?
that only matters if she's not monogamous.
Some men are uncomfortable with dating history involving homosexual sex. Shrugs.
well if they applie the logic "but she has twice the likelyhood to cheat", they don't understand what "monogamous" means, i guess. it means you're loyal no matter what other choices you have. therefore idt doesn't matter.
Man, I said monogamous because I wouldn't let my boyfriend casually bring over a waitress home and expect a threesome. That's all I meant.
bringing another partner into a monogamous relationship is fucked up no matter if the partner is gay, straight, bi or whatever.
Thank you!!
Couldn't agree more
Yes I have dated many and yes sometimes they bring other girls home.
No. I don't trust bisexual women to stay faithful. Too many options for them.
Depends on an individual. If she is faithful and share my views then why not?
Sexuality is a temptation everyone has. No one is free of it, regardless of sexuality.
Sure. It's no different than dating a mono straight woman.
Wife is bi and she does get girls time every once in a while or when we go to Lifestyle parties.
I have before and I would do this again. I have no jealousy or concerns about another woman and it can (and has) lead to additional pleasures.
*checks files *
my answer is maybe does she have a BIG smile or / can bring her friend 😏
I like to keep things simple and uncomplicated. Just a regular woman who likes men.
Yes just because you are bisexual doesn't mean you cheat, that's what people think.
If the guy likes you he probably will overlook a lot of things.
So bisexuality is unpleasant?
To some... uncomfortable. You will just have to work a tad bit harder to make him feel secure.
Yeah
As a monogamous bisexual man, preferably, yes. I know it doesn't align with the stereotype but I have virtually no interest in threesomes or whatever.
Also, while I stand by the notion the cheating and bisexuality should not be conflated, there IS an argument to be made that there may be a desire of the other sex that their current significant other physically cannot provide, and it's possible it could cause cheating to be tempting.
Though I'm of the opinion that is an uncommon occurrence.
Yes I would :)
if I see more than the word "girl" I'm out
I would, certainly.
That's a loaded question...
Hahaha š¹
That's good. But would you date one?
Would you go out with bi girls, hun?
Okay good
That's a deal breaker
Dishonesty is definitely red flag
Dishonesty and secretiveness are different.
Like if you ask me what bra I'm wearing, I can lie to rile you up and say lacy black ones.
I can also be secretive by saying "I don't want to share that information with you".
Youd respect the latter more.
I shouldn't have given that example lmao
Yep, that we can respect
Totally understandable. Thank you for your input.
Some people don't understand no means no and "I'm at work" usually means "later"
It's annoying as hell
If they're my SO, I'd punish them when I get back š¤
Maybe she pissed you off with that intention?
Gotcha
I don't see why I wouldn't.
Definitely not.
Thanks for the example
That's fair.
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