Is it wrong not to care about a woman being smart when dating?

[Anonymous]

Like, even if she isn't smart, that wouldn't be turn off for me. Might make me sound rude or like a pig but I don't know how else to describe it.

[RavVid]

No. I like interested in the world around her more than smart. It is not the same.

Girls will bill themselves as smart but what does smart mean? Is it an IQ level and what threshold? More girls say they are smart, than what the IQ bell curve supports. It is similar to girls rating themselves as a 10 - too many 10's to be realistic

College/University women might not not be interested in much at all afterwards but a non-college/University educate girl might be.

There are also a lot of attributes I'd give a higher importance. Being realistic is one of them.

[inhua]

no because we aren't employers looking to interview candidates for a job

a woman just has to be smart enough not to engage in behaviors that jeopardize the relationship

she doesn't need a Law degree or Engineering degree. if she works as a waitress at Starbucks or KFC it's perfectly fine

[sheenagwapa]

i believe we are created by God to have intelligence different from each other. i think it's wronh to assume that a person is dumb just because she isn't a graduate of a prestigious university. there are lots to learn from each other.

[Anonymous]

Dummies attract dummies. What more can I say?

[Asker]

You're not telling me anything I don't already know.

[richardcory]

Its fine to care about whatever matters to you.

I care about a woman being smart, but that doesn't mean that you need to

[Asker]

Other women try to make men who don't care feel guilty, I just can't find a reason to care. I don't want kids so I'm not worried about that either.