Is it okay to date a woman who isn't very smart?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Sure. A lot of men do all the time. Most men don’t care about a girls education, her job, her money, her independence as far as having her own car, house, etc. Most men care about looks. I man will date a chick working at McDonalds, most women won’t especially if they’re making more money. They can’t be the one to be that person to take care of things financially. They won’t date down but they still expect you to date down by making more than them. So why makes you happy.

[Asker]

Yeah, it's not a turn off for me, I like her looks and I like her.

[Opinion Owner]

So then go for it. If she likes you too great. Nothing wrong w that. Why do you think she’s not that smart?

[Asker]

She has a reputation for being ditzy, and I witnessed her ask a lady if they served frozen yogurt at a frozen yogurt place and she seemed serious.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol I’m sure she’s not really stupid. Maybe a “blond” moment as the expression goes. I’ve known people like doctors who couldn’t put their own gas in their car.

[Anonymous]

Isn't smart in what regard? If you an engineer but lack skills in how to best present and communicate (as an example) then it would make fkr a better team to have a woman who has strength in what you fall short of.


But even this isn't necessary. She needs not be academically the smartest but perhaps she be smart in basic relationship knowledge and far more patient, and emotionally smart which will come in handy when husband needs advice on how to proceed with a some issue that requires a clear mind, as well as far more suited to nurture and nurse their offspring

[Asker]

Seems lacking in common sense.

[Opinion Owner]

My comment seems lacking?
We all find ourselves in different situations. I myself do not need to require an academically gifted ace to contribute to the familial coffers. I myself accomplish that role and therefore place emphasis on other attributes.
Perhaps, if you had a little more common sense, you wouldn't have to have your womam do your job alongside you ;)

[Asker]

No, I was answering your question.

[Opinion Owner]

I'll just anonymize that one then hahaha

[Anonymous]

I don't know if its okay. Im definitely not smart, and my boyfriend is (on mostly every category), yet we’re doing just fine. Lol.

[Anonymous]

It's important to remember that intelligence can be subjective, and a successful relationship is built on more than just intelligence. Compatibility, shared values, communication, and emotional connection are also crucial. If you feel a connection with someone and share other important qualities, their level of intelligence may not be the most significant factor in a relationship. It's essential to respect and appreciate your partner for who they are.

[BourbonAndBacon]

Only if you're not very smart. Stick to your own IQ level

[Asker]

Why is that?

[BourbonAndBacon]

Conversation will be terrible if you're not on the same level.

[Asker]

I can live with that.

[Anonymous]

Dummies date dummies.

[Asker]

I'm a funny, but do smart people date dummies?