Last time you “confessed” your feelings to someone, what exactly did you say?

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I’m curious how people choose to do these things. Not bc I want to did it but bc I want to know 😊 Try to remember accurately. thanks!!

WindAtMyBack · Accepted Answer

I think I hinted at it more than a month ago. I made it completely clear less than two weeks ago.

We were in the car and she was driving. She was playing some music. When one song came on she said it was her favorite song. I didn't know her language, so I asked what it was about. It was a fairly typical love song, about love and heartbreak. I asked if she had been heartbroken. She had, and talked about that time and a previous time.

We were on the topic so I told her I'd be heartbroken when she leaves. Her visa is expiring soon and she will be forced to leave. There is a (probably small) chance she will come back, maybe even fairly soon. Currently it can't go anywhere - it just can't. I let her know I'd like to get serious if she does come back.

I'm a realist so I'm not counting on it. I guess that's a difference at my age. When I was young I'd let my feelings and emotions rule me. Now my brain still works and can over rule feelings. I know it's highly unlikely to go anywhere, so it's been suppressed from the start.

The_Shadow_Dweller · Accepted Answer

Hey Adriane (not real name), I slightly like you. The question is, do you?

*Her blank face*

Me-You don't know me, do you?

Her-No. And I am sorry, but I do not.

Me-*happy for her honesty and the way she said it* thank you!! I appreciate your honesty. Bye!!

*Ticks off the sort of confession from a mental list and carries on the work for the day. Unaware that the next day would be one of the worst ones for both of us, but due to her talking about it to everyone.*

19magic · Accepted Answer

There's this guy who works in a mini super market it has four isles and three tills. And I've seen him before and thought he was pretty cute and one day we had a really flirty convo, he tole me he had a girlfriend and there's the boundary. But I developed a pretty hard crush on him and would occasionally stutter and I kept being super clumsy around him like I'd grab something and then drop it, or knock something over - the worst one I accidentally knocked over this tray of tomatoes. I admitted to him that I don't know why I keep being a super klutz around him and was probably blushing every time I saw him too. Nowadays it's been a year and while I still like him, the crush has pretty much died down, thank god as that was embarrassing lol

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

" Let's stay friends and see where things go." We remained friends for about 4-6 months, until I realized I was starting to like him way more than he liked me, so I got rid of him.  Pretty much every guy I've liked friendzoned me, so was I surprised? No, not at all. Just disappointed.

Howdy13 · Answer

i told her that i really thought she was gorgeous and wanted to take her out on a date. she gave me her number and said she was down. I texted her trying to figure out what day worked best to go out that’s and then she didn’t respond. a few days later on the weekend when i was out of town she texted me back saying she was sorry and was really busy and still wanted to go out. i said it fine and said lmk your schedule this week so week can plan something and haven’t heard back from her. it’s been a week now lol. Chop it up as a L and move on.

zeitgeist057 · Answer

It was my current partner, and we met online. So I knew I loved her before we actually met in person, but I kept myself from telling her because she was planning to come visit and I wanted to be holding her and looking in her eyes when I did it.

I'm not sure that's what you're looking for, maybe you are wanting a story more like when someone has a crush on someone else? For that, I had a couple women at work I thought were cute and fun to talk to, so I didn't really "confess" so much as just got their numbers or offered to go out with them sometime.

Last time you “confessed” your feelings to someone, what exactly did you say?

beautyjoyfover200 · Answer

I don’t think I’ve ever confessed my feeling to someone…. Wait The last time I confessed my feelings was middle school and thats trama we are not counting lol
As adult It’s either I know for sure they never liked me back or during the “talking stage they never last long for me to think I love them like that

But I have a delulu mind on my favorite idols but my competition is 1 million+ people that love them as well lol
If I ever confessed I’ll do in the cutest way hopefully they will do the same for me haha

Anonymous · Answer

I asked her "what would you say to going out with me sometime". I think it was pretty clear what I was asking by her response she clearly understood what I was asking and really liked me asking her out. She even said yes, of course she didn't want to and eventually backed out.

I thought that was incredibly weird. She enjoyed being asked out, she just didn't enjoy the thought of going out with me.

That spelled the beginning of the end of our dealings with eachother. Not because I couldn't deal with the fact that she didn't want to go out with me. But because she couldn't be straight with me. All I ask for is honesty in anyone I know. She couldn't do that. Not just that time, but anytime afterwards. There's more to it than that but I won't bore you.

And this my friend, is why I typically don't ask women out. 🙂

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Something along the lines of telling her in a letter straight up that I had a crush, but that I knew her family up north needed her more, and I would respect their needs and her wishes. But that she'd be a tough act for another girl to follow, so I'd miss her knowing what I had to give up. I made her a flash drive with some of my best cooking recipes and Sims mods on it, so she could take a piece of me with her everywhere.

Wallythewalrus · Answer

Not my story but a friend of mine is a state prosecutor. When he first started as a ADA, he was assigned an aggravated assult case. An elderly woman was beaten and robbed and her daughter was heavily involved in the case as she was a witness. He and this woman's daughter spent a lot of time together preparing for the case. When all was said and done, he got a conviction. He got a call from the daughter thanking him for his hard work. He couldn't get her off his mind, so two days later he called her and said he had grown very fond of her. She was quite for a few seconds, then said, "really? I've actually fallen in love with you". 6 months later, they were married. I always liked that story! They're two of the most amazing people I know.

RealMarek · Answer

After a couple dates I told her I was very attracted to her, admired her a lot, and didn’t want to date anyone else. I said I wanted to see how our relationship would grow. She felt the same way. Not many days after that I told her I loved her.

Anonymous · Answer

We were friends, but began hanging out a lot, and one day we were just sitting around doing nothing and I said to him, there is no way to make this "unawkward" if I'm wrong about this, but I think we like each other. Am I wrong? If I am, I'm so sorry and will try to forget everything I'm saying right now. I swear it was like time itself stopped waiting for him to answer, but luckily things were in my favor and we dated for like 2 years.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

Not well, lol. I'm an INFP personality, and I'm shy, and me confessing my feelings is like trying to get a snail to beat a car in a race!

There was this girl that I talked to all the time, she worked at this coffee shop, and I started to like her because I thought she was really cool, honest, and really friendly. I told her I thought she was a really coo person and told her I had a little crush on her.

She got really weird and looked at me like I was the freak that lived at the end of the street that yells at the kids on Halloween. After that, every time I would go in there, if she was working, I could hear her telling other employees that I'm a weirdo and a psycho. When I told her I liked her, I said very little to her in the first place.

Since then, I have never confessed anything to anyone ever again. I'm guessing there's something wrong with me other people can see that I can't.

sheenagwapa · Answer

there's this guy who probably thought i don't like him but i actually feel attracted to him. and the thing about me is i do not lie nor use. he is not my soulmate thoygh so compatibility is a big wuestion mark but yeah if i am rich and "goof enough" i will absolutely date him

DancingQueen16 · Answer

It started like this: my now boyfriend but he was my best friend at the time texted me one-night last year and asked if he could tell me a secret and I said sure and he said that he had a crush on me when we were younger and I said that I did too and then he said that if he knew I felt the same way he would've told me sooner and then he said that he still likes me and I said that I like him too and then he said that if he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes and we've been together for a little over a year now

Lliam · Answer

I don't recall "confessing" my feelings to anyone. We just had mutual attraction.  I said lots of nice things to girlfriends but they weren't confessions.

MysticDevice · Answer

Ooof. Well, we ended up dating for over a year.

I had known her forever and we were starting to hang out a lot more often. When I realized I like her I kinda just snuck the notion into casual conversation.

Forgot exactly what we were talking about but it was about a female celebrity or someone. I used the line "yeah she's really beautiful. Kinda like you". Corny as hell I know but it worked. We got together like 2 weeks later.

Akam93 · Answer

Well I confessed my feelings to the guy I'm talking to now very carefully. I didn't want him freaking out but luckily he told me he wanted me to be true to my feelings and was happy I was opening up to him.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Well, with my first girlfriend, I just told her that I loved her, but sadly she broke off our engagement well it was for the best. That happened a little after I told her.

Anonymous · Answer

I pulled a Mr. darcy and bluntly told my best female friend, "I love you". It didn't work out and it hurt like hell losing her friendship, but im glad I told her. I feel more self authentic

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i said hey girl. we like each other but you get sick too much for me and i fear we'll never meet

humanearth · Answer

I confess my love everyday I never let a day go by with kissing or saying I love you Plus I spoil the crap out of her

Agape93 · Answer

Hey, you hungry? I'll make you dinner tonight. Just the two of us.

exitseven · Answer

I said that we belonged together. She said that we did have a lot of things in common.

MementoMori777 · Answer

i shouldn't have said shit, i felt like i lost some dignity that day 😂

menina · Answer

I wrote him a letter. I talked about how we met, what did I think of him, I complimented his looks and I said that I admired him.

Then he took about two months to give me answer. That answer came on Christmas Day at midnight. I was so anxious, so that was the best Christmas gift that I got that year. I knew that he didn't feel the same way, but I didn't want to have regrets. So took a risk. Now, I don't regret it but I wouldn't do it again.

Zatsuma · Answer

"Why lie to me about her texting you if she is "just" a friend? I will never be able to trust you. We are done and don't ever try contacting me again "

I swear I'm humming that song right now.. 🎶 And you say he's just a friend 🤦🏼‍♀️

Jazzy54 · Answer

Well, I’ve been burned a lot, so I don’t confess it anymore. 🤷🏽‍♀️

AmeerX · Answer

I told her straight away I love you, I always had. What do you say? And she said, "sorry I am not interested

collie22 · Answer

Most recently I told my brother I love you. He's such a good guy and he looks out for me😊

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

i got rejected. but i've rejected before so its all good.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I am a bit shy deep down and don’t easily open up emotionally or physically.

I’ve never confessed my feelings to anyone.

I did reciprocate though. Why would I have feelings if they don’t have feelings for me?

Anonymous · Answer

My now ex-girlfriend about 9 years ago

After she'd finished with her head on my hip, my fingers toying with a lock of her hair and just kinda said we should go out sometime because she was great, I think she expected me to be a bit of a one time pump and dump

electromagnetic · Answer

I said: ‘niccaa, I love you and that why I’m willing to try (insert xrated act here) one time and one time only.’  Then I never went through with it. 🤣

CubsterShura · Answer

I wrote a poem on a piece of paper and gave it to him. He reacted positively and we went out on a few dates, talked about our expectations, boundaries etc things. We're in a relationship now.

boobliker · Answer

sorry i fuckup big time I crashed the car and I got to get ins

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Not sure lol. I think I said "I like you.". Or something like that.

SnowedIn · Answer

It was "you know you make me smile?"

Hinaaaaa · Answer

Never confessed someone cause never liked someone... but got a confession through a love song it was really sweet

razelove · Answer

This is a ridiculous question. I tell me wife and kids I love them at least once a day.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, it started with "forgive me Farher, for I have sinned" ...

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I told her I think she's annoying and we're not a good fit

fonduegirl · Answer

But I like you

Part2603 · Answer

"I really like you. You make me happy."

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Basically that she only likes me as a really close friend, and she thinks there's no romantic attraction because of my looks

KatherineJ · Answer

I don’t remember it being a confession. I just waited for him to say it first.

Anonymous · Answer

"My dick don't get much harder than this".

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

It was a long time ago and i don't remember what i said but all i know is that i was honest and said everything that needs to be said 😌

MissBoogus · Answer

I said “I want to be your girlfriend”

NajemEddineBR · Answer

her reaction : 😍 her husband reaction : 😤😠

lorenzomichael · Answer

I told her "Girl I love you have faith in me and no one will take your place".

Christoff92 · Answer

Your eyes and smile what makes my days and every single day 🥰

ibrayaz · Answer

I was like " Wanna go out?" then i didn't get rejected but it didn't go well in the date.

eagle1951 · Answer

1979

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Never confessed haha

CubaPirate · Answer

Love you too

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