Is my dad right?

[Anonymous]

My dad says I should wait for girls to ask me out. My dad says if a girl finds me attractive she will ask for my number. My dad says a girl will tell me if she likes me.

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+1 y

i will start asking girls out and for their numbers. I will start talking to girls. I won't take my dads advice, i won't ask anymore questions either.

[inhua]

are you actually attractive though? if you truly were attractive, say a 6'3 Zac Efron, then yes what you're dad said, isn't bad advice. now if you looked like a 5'3 Michael Cera, then that's shit advice

[Asker]

im 5’7 average build, average looking

[inhua]

average/ordinary isn't good enough. you need to be extraordinary. you won't stand out in a crowd full of average men. only an attractive man say Nick Bateman can get women to turn their attention towards him

[SnowedIn]

You're dad is wrong.

[SnowedIn]

Thanks for mho

[Whatthefluff]

I don’t agree with that. Most girls will expect the guy to take initiative.

[Asker]

i will start doing that then, i dont know why my dad tells me the wrong stuff

[Whatthefluff]

I don’t know either.

[Jazzy54]

That’s what men are telling their sons now, huh? Good grief. 🙄🤮

[OlderAndWiser]

TROLL ALERT!!!

TROLL ALERT!!!

TROLL ALERT!!!

[slatyb]

Your dad is wrong. You need to learn how to initiate a conversation. If she engages you can ask her at the end of the conversation whether you can contact her. Passivity is not generally attractive.

[Anonymous]

A very tiny percentage of them might do this but it is clearly an absurd strategy.

You should take an active role.

[Sharkstealth]

No! Don't end up alone. It's not that common. Do all you can to meet as many girls as possible. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.

[Sharkstealth]

I have been given numbers by girls without asking and by asking but the majority of the time they ghost me anyways.

[Sharkstealth]

Do you take what you want or take what you can get? Think of it that way.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

so good luck with that, unless you're a celebrity, are very rich and dressed really top, have a supercar, have a bodybuilder physique and have a big confidence, you won't have any girl approach you

[driven159]

sometimes you have to go out and get her waiting for her might cause you to miss out on her

[Tomisworthless]

Based on that then I’m not surprised why I’m 29 and a virgin with no female friends