I have this social problem, I can't seem to say the right things to attract women to me offline? What are the methods that are a must in conversation?

[Anonymous]

People have different problems like confidence, financial etc. But my problem is saying the right things to come across as likeable to them. I do not have this issue with guys/mates in conversation.

[inhua]

change your physical appearance to suit someone who is physically attractive and that will solve 90% of your problems. the better looking you are, the higher tolerance and margin of error you'll have plus they'll even make "excuses" for you when you stuff up

Halo Effect/Devil Effect 101

[Asker]

But what if you have a problem with gain weight as a person.

[inhua]

well you're gonna have to check your diet carefully and exercise the right muscles

[Sharkstealth]

Keep at it. Eat as much as you can but actually most of the cutest gals like a slim athletic look and not the body builder type. The big hip and bigger women like the body builders.

[Sharkstealth]

Just introduce yourself and ask her questions. Just ask what comes natural and don't worry about sexual questions as long as they are not to sleazy. You can say Where do you like to be kissed? Don't say your butt looks so good can I do you anal? But start slow. Where would you like to go on vacation? What is your favorite snack?

[Asker]

Never worked for me

[Sharkstealth]

It always works for me with introductions especially in places where you see each other over and over. School, church, gym, swimming lessons, kayaking lessons, hiking.