Is there a way to change a hookup to a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I hooked up very early with a guy I like, is there a way to change his mind to maybe becoming more than just a hookup now? Or did I screw up and its too late?

[Alli39]

I mean, you could try to become more emotionally involved with his life, but frankly if he was looking for a hook-up, he might not be intersted in a relationship right now, even if he does like you.

Moreover, and this might not be a big deal to you, but you should probably consider whether or not you want to pursue a relationship who pursued you for a hook-up. Just make sure you're confident that he'll be respectful of you in a real relationship

[Ezra_lila]

Talk to him if he want it on another level otherwise leave if he can't give you the commitment you want. Sadly you started in wrong perspective but hey communication is always a key to everything.

[lorenzomichael]

Yeah but do you think he feels the same way towards you as you do him? That being said just come out and tell him. But keep in mind this type of talking needs to be done right. Take him out somewhere nice, like at dinner. Don't let anyone tell you that us guys don't like that. We dig when chicks take us out for a stake and a beer. Then when you think the time is right, tell him. Remember life is too fucking short to be bullshiting. GL...

[Asker]

I totally agree. I sent him a text saying I think it’s important we are on the same page.

[AviatorTom]

You let him know that casual sex is okay with you. It's unlikely he would ever accept you in a serious relationship. You can try, but don't expect it's gonna work.

[OlderAndWiser]

Too late. You never get a second chance to make a good first impression.

[ProbablyClueless]

It can change, but that's not something you'll ever be able to force. Give it time. Be a consistent and supportive part of his life... he might decide that he wants more from you one day.

[Asker]

Thank you this is nice.

[ZackBan]

Theoretically yes.

But you need to bring far more to the table than just sex at this point since he already got that.

You need to demonstrate how good of a companion you are, how much you get him, how little drama you bring, how much you got his back and how much you let him come into your life and your world.

I think the best relationship start with sex early not late. Once you get the initial lust out of the way you can see if a true connection is there or not

[strateguy632]

depends but try saying "you are really a nice guy now that i got to know you when can we make plans again?"

[Asker]

He did say he was willing to hang out again

[DarkWinterNights]

Highly unlikely, but depending on the situation and the people involved- not impossible.

[BrickBiggems]

Date a guy looking for an actual relationship. Not a guy who's alright with hookups. You already know that he isn't into commitment given how you met.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

I don’t think you screwed up. But if the relationship part wasn’t there to begin with it’s extremely difficult to transition it now.

[sheikalana]

It's hard but not impossible. But if a man doesn't want to be more than friends it's likely that he will not change his mind and there's not much you can do.

[DextroShade]

Find ways to add value and do things for him without him asking you to. Cooking for him or cleaning up his place or finding some way you can be helpful to him are ways to make yourself stand out as relationship material.

[inhua]

no. it's too late

he got what he wanted

[slatyb]

Get pregnant?

Just keep meeting and then it's a relationship.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, thats one reason why hookups are bad (others being infection risk, inplanned kids, etc)

[TheSpaceGnome]

unplanned*

[captain_voidwalker]

You could invent a time machine and go back and stop yourself from hooking up with him.

[RavVid]

I rate it unlikely but I'd suggest you ask.

[KrakenAttackin]

You can be his fuck buddy.

[LazerBean]

Can't make a husband or a wife out of a hoe.

[Asker]

Wow go f yourself

[LazerBean]

Stay mad hoe

[Asker]

Watch your husband fuck every girl behind your back you bitch

[Anonymous]

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