Why do guys keep standing me up?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been trying to go on a dates with guys I match with on hinge…. and they make plans date, time, place etc…. and then it all just never happens…. I’m actually very cute, very very fit, stable…. and every time for the past couple months…. and the last date I went on I had a wild night and the guy got laid out of it (the intent of the arrangement was just to be casual)…. what am I doing wrong here…

[Anonymous]

You're choosing casual arrangements. The guys see you coming. So you're literally going to be an OPTION for them.

A friend of a friend of mine was waiting for a tinder date and my friend called him up and said he had box tickets to the ballgame and asked if he wanted to go, if he was doing anything. And he said I was just waiting for a tinder date, sure let's go. And my friend said. Well I don't want to interrupt your plans. And he said, dude it's just a tinder date I can do that whenever. So he just left and stood the woman up.

[Willlovewinintheend]

Marriage and commitment is a choice. You have the choice. It's not the 1960s anymore. Times have changed. Women don't need a husband and a man doesn't need a wife.

If men only want casual sex then men only want casual sex. You can't do anything about it. We have the right to choose just like you.

[Anonymous]

Do you post anything that could be a red flag on social media? People can look you up.

[Opinion Owner]

Any "men are trash" "I don't need a man" type of stuff?

[Asker]

No I keep my social media rather private and I also don’t post stuff when I do