Why do guys keep cancelling dates with me or standing me up?

[thatshydork]

[Anonymous]

It's the type of guys you're attempting to date obviously. For comparison i can't remember ever canceling a date, and I've never stood a date up (not that I'm suggesting date me or anything we're way too far apart in age). I'm just saying you need to choose better men. These guys you're attempting to date are tending to women like crops and then the pick what THEY consider to be the best one. Women do this to. Your gender just does it in a subtle different way. Rather then setting dates your gender just flirts with multiple guys, makes innuendo, gets his motor running, then tells him, "we're just friends" or "I don't see you in that way".😆

It's f***ed up but some PEOPLE (men and women) treat other people like a resources, not a person. Welcome to dating

[aaron13547]

Patterns come from cause and effect not trying to blame you but maybe its the kind of guys you are talking to...

Don't get me wrong we suck and couldnt see a good thing if it were right in front of us half the time... there are a lot of bad apples found along the way.

But there are good guys, they are just hard to find. Its ironic the things that make a "good guy"; a good guy, also make them hard to find.

[Still-alive]

It's part of the whole dating culture now. there's probably nothing you're doing wrong this is just how it be these days. yeah it sucks.

i guess if i were you i would try to call a day before to confirm they are still on for the date. thats still not a guarantee they won't cancel but at least it'll get them to acknowledge that this is for real.

[Nikki1989]

It is a reflection of the current dating culture and the type of men you are attracting. Good men are difficult to find. I just got lucky; most women never do.

I know it sucks.

[WonderingManII]

Nobody on the internet can diagnose this. You need someone close to you that can give you a perspective of what is going on. Also where are you meeting these guys? Online? The internet culture is often known for ghosting.

[loveslongnails]

In my opinion, the simplest guess without knowing the guys themselves, is that you weren't a priority in the first place and something "better" came up, in their eyes.

[msc545]

I think you probably need to ask the guys rather than asking all of us. There is no universal answer to your question.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Is this just one guy that canceled multiple dates with you or several different guys canceling dates with you

[In_Trance]

Can't say for sure but it definitely sucks when that happens.

[DryGermanGuy]

They might have discovered they’re gay? 🤔

[Shiprex]

They're flaky and rude.

[bowenw]

They are insane or players.

[chickychickyparmparm]

cause you are catfishing

[Steve-the-lion]

I don't know. Ask them.

[itsannalee]

He isn’t interested.

[wkhan_87]

It's not fair ,