When you hook up with someone, is what they look like more or less important than someone you want to have a relationship with?

[CrazyKittyStyx]

[chrissykerdock]

if you agreed to meet someone then you have to do what you said you were going to do regardless of their looks... think of it being a prostitute but you don't get paid... usaully i meet guys for blowjobs... never do i have intercourse with someone i never met.

[CrazyKittyStyx]

Kind of, but if they’ve turned up and don’t look like their picture it’s false advertising and you are within you’re rights to tell them to go swivel! Plus you can always just change your mind, this is one situation where integrity can take a back seat.

[chrissykerdock]

if you can ideally... a lot do use pictures from long ago.

[CrazyKittyStyx]

It’s ridiculous, like you’re not going to notice the difference when you meet them in person.

[chrissykerdock]

unless they think they look the same

[katiesmuff]

Has to be some attraction other than just fucking even for a hook up!

[mandyfire98]

I definitely have to find them attractive.

[Paige90]

Not necessarily

[CrazyKittyStyx]

Why’s that?

[Emanon25]

Could you explain?

[CrazyKittyStyx]

Sure, ok so are there things about a persons appearance that you don’t care about if you’re in a relationship with them, because you love/care about them as a person BUT if you were just hooking up it would be a massive turn off? Or because you’re just hooking up you don’t care about how they look because it’s just about sex? But their appearance would matter more in a LTR because you see what they look like on a regular basis?

[Emanon25]

Appearance is important in either relationship, at least to be decent, we’re not talking about physical shape coz love is blind when it comes to that point.

[CrazyKittyStyx]

I just wonder because I’ve had guys chasing me just for a hook up. I can’t quite work out if it’s just because they don’t find me attractive enough to date me, but I’m good enough for sex. Or if they really just don’t want a relationship at all.

[jwmiller95]

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