How much do looks matter I’m a relationship to you?

[citygirlxox]

How much do looks matter to you in a relationship? Would you leave someone who you are not attracted to anymore? Would you cheat? I heard a lot of men talk about high end escorts and they would pay for it because they are a higher class like an Instagram model and that they would pay a lot? But when you are in a relationship and you find yourself happy and in love with somone and you fall i attracted to them what would you do?

[serious]

Well, I have always been single and wish to remain single for life. However, just for the purpose of answering your questions, I will answer in hypothetical sense.

My answer will come in parts for each of your question

1. "How much do looks matter to you in a relationship?"

Yes, for me physical looks, appeal of a woman is very important. However, my thinking is unlike most men in many aspects. My definition of a gorgeous woman is a lot different and very specific. For eg, I can only find a woman who has a toned physique in combination of super short BOY CUT hairstyle as attractive and appealing to my eyes and mind. Any other hairstyle will automatically be unappealing to me.

That being said, I also give equal importance to personality aspects as well. I am not getting into this because your question is regarding physical looks only.

2. "Would you leave someone who you are not attracted to anymore?"

Well, it is a very good question. My answer is like this. If the woman has an excellent personality then no, I won't leave or break up outright but I will no longer have the same level of love that I would have had when she was attractive to me. I would still treat her good and with respect but only normal respect and nothing more.

3. "Would you cheat?"

Absolutely not. No. Never.

I would instead break up with the woman if that is what I want to do.

4. "I heard a lot of men talk about high end escorts and they would pay for it because they are a higher class like an Instagram model and that they would pay a lot?"

Well I don't know about other men but I see these things as cheap and highly immoral so I will never do any such things ever in my life.

5. "But when you are in a relationship and you find yourself happy and in love with someone and you fall i attracted to them what would you do?"

I did not understand this part. I think you meant to say if some other person comes into picture then what will I do? is it?

Anyways I have answered your questions in hypothetical sense. In reality I will never face this situation.

[Ευδεμονια]

I sincerely think looks has a big impact on relationships especially in early stages, when emotions has to stabilise and an entente has to be still formed.
After, when there’s mutual attraction with stabilised emotions, the physical appearance can be put in second place.

I wouldn’t cheat, NEVER. I live by saying “act with the others in the way you want to be treated”, I won’t accept a cheating by the partner so the basis of a relationship in my opinion has to be trusting and mutual respect, so NO CHEATING. If there are problems or emotions are starting decrease, we can talk and eventually solve. If I’m in a relationship and I’m attracted to someone else and I perceive the need to keep this other person with me, it means I have started decreasing my emotions for my partner so I would talk to her directly. First of all: dialogue.

I would never pay for going out or staying for someone like escorts or instagram models, I would not feel at ease since they’re really out of my league and I wouldn’t feel ok since their emotions are due to money and not because they appreciate my companionship.

[FreeMan6354]

Honestly, a decent amount. Me finding my girlfriend physically attractive and sexually desirable is a pretty big deal for me

[citygirlxox]

How would u act if you were not attracted to her anymore?

[TrillXHippy]

I’ve been single from elementary school all the way to high school graduation. Went to college for 1-3 years I forgot and still single by the way. From the things that I’ve been through and still go through looks will continue to matter a lot

[Waldoe]

SEX... is Not LOVE, people get TWISTED... get over it, humans are still animals and sometimes act like it... maybe in another 3 million years it will change... but unlikely... Pheromones exist...

[citygirlxox]

What do you mean get over it? It was just a question

[jahaims]

The only way I would be come unattracted after being with someone is if they become unhealthy. Cheating is never an option.

[citygirlxox]

Unhealthy like how?

[Hairylegs222]

Some but her looks + personality as a whole is what matters most to me. Just looks alone isn't even close enough to be girlfriend material.

[Anonymous]

Well why would be with someone I wasn't attracted to? No one does that. Neither women or men. Regardless of what they would have you believe. 😆

[citygirlxox]

Would u have sex if I wernt attracted to someone?

[Opinion Owner]

Of course not! Do I feel that pull? I have hormones of course I do. But that wouldn't be fair to her

[TallnBig]

You're either with someone or you're not
Never lasts unless both want to be

[Sam_25]

Nah I don't do relationship...
I'm like whores

[citygirlxox]

How much do the looks matter?

[Sam_25]

100% look matter with her figure

[citygirlxox]

Not her face?

[Sam_25]

Nope face doesn't matter

[In_Trance]

they matter a lot

[citygirlxox]

Would u cheat if there was a better looking girl?

[In_Trance]

that's not how cheating works

[citygirlxox]

How does it work then?

[In_Trance]

I suggest you do some research. Not chatrooms either. Find some sources for human behavior and psychology as it relates to this

[citygirlxox]

Well as a man do you feel like if the women dosnt look how you want that she dosnt want to look good for you?

[In_Trance]

Not the case at all

[citygirlxox]

So how would u act then?

[In_Trance]

Act?

[citygirlxox]

Yes how what would u do if you were not attracted to her anymore?

[In_Trance]

I'd have a conversation with her about it

[Anonymous]

I do not date