We were childhood sweethearts i was 17 and he was 20 when we started dating. We were in so so much love he did so many things for me would take me out on dates, would buy me flowers randomly and just be there for me. No relationship is perfect i made mistakes but no matter what no one deserves to get abused both verbally or physically. The last year it got so worse he started doubting me on everything I was not allowed to have guy friends neither could i post my picture anywhere because he didn’t wanted any guy to look at me. I couldn’t wear anything of my choice because he didn’t like anything that showed skin. Eventually it got to the point where he would start abusing me and at first it was verbally i was a bitch a slut someone who craved guy’s attention even tho i did absolutely nothing wrong. He made me feel so small he cheated on me and when I confronted he was juat blanks and I begged him to apologise to me and his words were” if u think im gonna get on my knees and apologise to you you’re wrong”. After everything i kept begging him to stay and not leave me because i realised that i had no one left in my life except him. My friends kept telling me to leave him but i was so used to him I couldn’t. At the end after being hit after being called so many names he left me. And even after leaving me he blamed everything on me. I’m in such a bad stage and the worst part when i would tell him and cry infront of him he would just leave me alone because he used to gwt so annoyed by me crying. I just want God to take revenge to make him feel exactly what i felt for months and i pray everyday that he does.
Do guys realise how much pain they’ve caused us after the relationship has ended?
