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I went on 2 dates with this guy. He asked me sexual questions way too soon. Such as, “If we were to have sex would you wanna be dating first?” and also my body count… I have ignored his apology texts for a week. I feel like I need some closure so I am thinking of sending him a text that says this,
“Honestly, I’m sorry I have been ignoring you. I just needed some time to process my thoughts. It did really upset me that you asked me those questions, it felt very intrusive because we had only been on 2 dates. Asking me those questions that so soon, really gave the impression that you are looking for a friends with benefits or hookup. If that’s the case, it is fine, I just need to know. If you are unsure, what you’re looking for that’s fine too, just tell me. I’m a very reserved person, it takes me awhile to trust someone especially if I just met them. However, what I will tell you now is, I have been through hell and back in the dating world. So the least you can do now is tell me the truth of what you’re looking for so we can both move on. I’m not trying to waste my time, and I’m sure you don’t want to either.”
Is this good to say? Or too emotional? I don’t wanna seem like the crazy girl. I want to show I have a heart and can’t be played like that.
“Honestly, I’m sorry I have been ignoring you. I just needed some time to process my thoughts. It did really upset me that you asked me those questions, it felt very intrusive because we had only been on 2 dates. Asking me those questions that so soon, really gave the impression that you are looking for a friends with benefits or hookup. If that’s the case, it is fine, I just need to know. If you are unsure, what you’re looking for that’s fine too, just tell me. I’m a very reserved person, it takes me awhile to trust someone especially if I just met them. However, what I will tell you now is, I have been through hell and back in the dating world. So the least you can do now is tell me the truth of what you’re looking for so we can both move on. I’m not trying to waste my time, and I’m sure you don’t want to either.”
Is this good to say? Or too emotional? I don’t wanna seem like the crazy girl. I want to show I have a heart and can’t be played like that.
