Should I send this message?

[Anonymous]

"Hey, Haven't heard from you in a minute. Hope you're doing well. I'm always here, you take care."

He ghosted me. I believe he got tired of waiting around for me to make up my mind about our relationship status. Not making excuses for it but understandable. I was emotionally unavailable. I had a hard time expressing to him all my insecurities and baggage. He was the opposite of me and I admired him for that. No matter how great he was, I was terrified of letting myself sink into that sea of pure vulnerability. I didn't tell him that though, instead I acted cool, at times unbothered. Id let him knowhow much I needed him. Hed say he was right there. But each time I felt like pushing him away. Until eventually I felt him pulling away, he reassured I was wrong but I could feel it. Our last kiss he asked me if I felt for him, how he felt for me. I hadn't told him in a while. Lately we barely spoke, instead we fucked. My answer was of course maybe even more, but instead I kissed him and playfully teased him then we fell into heat. Apparently his mom had come home, we weren't sure if she'd caught us hooking up, so we cooled down and I ended up akwardly going home. That night we briefly texted about his mom catching us or not.. he seemed worried about it but he like brushed it off.. then mid conversation he stopped replying and haven't heard since then. I am 20 he is 22, but his mom is kinda strict, and he's been back home.

[Staximus]

I don't know. If you want to see him again, word it differently. "You take care" sounds like you're saying goodbye, like you're not planning on seeing him again. It seems like you want to see him again, because before that you're going to say "I'm always here". That's sending mixed signals to him, is confusing and doesn't make any sense. Be an effective communicator, be forthright and straightforward in your communications or you will not get the results you are looking for. Stop building walls between yourself and him with your poor communication skills. Tell him how you really feel.

[Asker]

You're right. What should I say instead? I want to do that. I do. It's the only way I can feel at peace, with whatever happens moving forward.. but It's been almost 3 weeks. I texted him a meme that night & then a few days later a simple how are you message with a gif, but no reply. After that I stopped trying. I'm afraid maybe it's been a long time but I've been so close to reaching out so many times. I know his brother's graduation is soon and he's away for that right now. So I was thinking of waiting until I knew he'd be back in town to reach out.

[SnakeBoop]

if he ghosted you, take a fucking hint?